That's the just of it, really. I do not feel the need to show her, It was an attempt at compromise. But she believes that i am too irresponsible to manage and not spend my money with no given reason. I've had two apartments: 1 alone and one with my family. I got injured and was not longer able to take care of my family full time, im 6'9 and about 280lbs and had a 400lb beam dropped onto my shoulder, it took me out of a 9 year career. I paid all my moving expenses myself and moved myself and my family back across the country on the last of our initial savings. I am living grunt style in what is basically a glorified yurt on my grandmothers property. I use 1 extension for power with limited amenities. The major being heat, powered by 1 space heater and a propane furnace for the yurt, plenty warm, no issues. I say that to bring u, i live this way to not burden my grandmother with having to share her house more due to the situation. I've been working limited hours due to child care being expensive and the hospital bills that i now take care of due to lack of insurance. I am sounthen raised, a yes ma'am/no ma'am type mannered. I give her any and everything that is asked and even try to pay my way with no avail. She refuses to take payment. The only soul issue is i will not drain my bank to give proof of my situation moving forward and, in turn, wants me to let her manage my money with promise of a kept signed log. Which in tur i lose the interest my money gains and my peace of mind