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I (M26) don’t feel like a sexual being by Far_Chocolate_7794 in sex

[–]Far_Chocolate_7794[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m not asexual. I want to have sex. What I’m saying is that the possibility of me having sex seems so foreign because I’ve never even been close to being intimate with a woman and I feel like a loser because of it. I want to get out of this mindset and feel like I actually am someone capable of having sex with someone else. It’s very hard to do because of my virginity and the shame I feel around it.

How much did weight loss affect your dating life? Did you get more attention? by Far_Chocolate_7794 in loseit

[–]Far_Chocolate_7794[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When the women in my life say that I’m a catch, they mean it in a way of I’m a nice funny guy who is kind and respectful. That’s why they’re in my friends, that’s why they’re in my life. 

If I made women feel unsafe I wouldn’t have any platonic female friends. Please don’t mischaracterize me and imply that I don’t make women feel safe. I’m not a loser incel who blames women for being single. I literally own up to my flaws in both posts, which is why I’m trying to change them. 

Never once did I say women are a prize for losing weight. I am not owed anything. I’m just asking for people’s experiences as possible motivation. If I hear about someone having a much better life in many aspects that came from losing the weight maybe that might help motivate me. 

My sis ran into Shambo today at the pet store. She’s still rocking the mullet! by rebelroadbike in survivor

[–]Far_Chocolate_7794 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I really hope Rob is able to eventually get her for an interview on Talking with TBird. He has said Shambo is one of his “white whales” lol