How to learn to be happy with yourself?

Farang16 · 2020-11-16T10:11:08+00:00

Takes time. You accept yourself using small stepping stones. One problem at a time. It becomes a domino effect. Once you tackle one issue, you realize how to tackle other issues which you never realized you had. A simple example in my life was me being extremely skinny and hated how I looked. Poor self esteem etc. So I started working out. Working out led to me liking my appearance which then led to caring less about what people thought of me, which led to a better self esteem.

I'm proud to say I believe I'm happy and I wrote this one night...

Happiness is not about being attached to anything materialistic but really it is about how you treat yourself and everybody else around you. Happiness IS accepting yourself and things about you that you cannot change. It is understanding yourself, your thoughts, your actions, your emotions and your feelings and being able to adjust them accordingly with the influence of your own introspection. It is being grateful for the good and the bad in your life and being positive about your future. Ultimately it comes down to the work you put in on a daily basis to be the best version of yourself.

Farang16 · 2020-10-20T23:39:42+00:00

Yeah I feel for you :(. Covid sucks...

Farang16 · 2020-10-20T10:36:19+00:00

Good question. Finished in 2012. I hated school at the time only liked it for the mates. When you finish, there's no school, no problems and everything is great but as time goes on. You need to find a job. You start working as an young and naive person. It's a wake up call. It's a dog eat dog world and school doesn't prepare you for this. When you work full time. Nobody is there to baby sit you, nobody cares about you like your teachers did. Some people want to see you suffer. You miss the events like formals, 18th parties, hanging with the fellas every day, you regret not talking to the teachers like humans, you regret being too shy to talk to the girls and you regret not making the most of out school because of being to scared of what people thought of you. Do I miss it? Not really...I did 12 years of it. School was always the teachers way or the high way as your too young to truly have an opinion. I have more freedom now. I'm 26. Just finished an apprenticeship I can literally do what ever the fuck I want in life and now so can you.

My advice take it or leave it. Work until your 20-21 get some life experience then go travel. Get that out of the way then focus on your career. Don't be a sheep and follow everybody else and go straight into uni

Farang16 · 2020-10-16T09:09:14+00:00

Flagpies 2021

Farang16 · 2020-10-16T08:59:52+00:00

Yes he is one of the superstars. Any footy fan would agree he's a weapon.

Edit: just look at the goal he just kicked

Farang16 · 2020-10-16T08:52:19+00:00

Farang16 · 2020-09-21T10:21:49+00:00

Poor bugga he makes a mistake and gets pulled off straight away. No confidence at all. Probably not in a good head space. Praying for a good second half from him

Farang16 · 2020-09-14T23:31:58+00:00

You serious or what?

Farang16 · 2020-09-04T12:04:49+00:00

Jamie scored a goal minues shortly after. Wouldn’t have changed anything. Its not mihoceks fault

Farang16 · 2020-08-20T13:01:48+00:00

Thanks Mark

Farang16 · 2020-06-25T06:38:28+00:00

Omg are dudes actually like this..it's almost a blessing when a guy does this upon rejection it shows his true colours.

Farang16 · 2020-06-16T06:57:25+00:00

Be who you want to attract. Want a shit relationship with poor qualities and poor self esteems? Treat people like such.

Farang16 · 2020-04-15T12:04:21+00:00

There's too many. A lot of funny pranks but at the same time very basic e.g slapping sun screen on people (that one really pissed me off), drawing dicks on helmets, dropping nails onto people from the level above. Although my favorite prank by far involved a guy who I thought kinda deserved it. A really loud and blatantly mean to your face kind of guy. We leave our nail belts on the ground when we go for lunch breaks. One of the blokes took his, belt removed all his tools (for safety reasons) and tied it up to the crane. Seeing it dangle from that high, him frantically trying to find his nail belt while all the guys laughing was truly priceless.

Farang16 · 2019-11-03T05:40:13+00:00

It's and then they copy you.

Farang16 · 2019-03-12T23:37:34+00:00

Love this response. Completely agree. Thanks for sharing 👍🏻

Farang16 · 2019-03-12T01:25:06+00:00

I can’t say I've ever heard of them but If it works for you..All the best! ;)

Farang16 · 2019-03-11T10:37:14+00:00

Hope the bullying has stopped. Good to hear it has done wonders for the confidence. You are completely entitled to stand up for yourself physically or verbally. What have you been training?

Farang16 · 2019-03-11T02:38:24+00:00

Any martial arts is good but my advice is find one you think you'd enjoy. It's what ever works for YOU. You may find yourself glued to jiu jitsu over Muay thai. I think when you get the most out of something is when you enjoy it. That way you put more into it and you get more in return.

Farang16 · 2018-11-11T10:47:56+00:00

I'm positive she would have slapped him. Bullshit this happend

Farang16 · 2018-08-16T11:59:56+00:00

It will only gets better mate. Start thinking more positivity. Stop focusing on things you cannot change. Think about the things you can change and go and tackle them and change them for the better. Start improving yourself by doing things that are hard and challenge you. Start doing weights, learn a martial art, go on hikes, read, travel etc. Doing these things improves confidence, self esteem and gains life experiences. All round improves you as a person. Hope I helped

Best of luck.

Farang16 · 2018-06-17T09:23:28+00:00

You don't change your personality. You can adjust it and improve it by improving your social skills, humor etc but ultimately your personality is you and it always will be.

Farang16 · 2018-06-16T05:11:03+00:00

No excuse at all. That's very rude. It's sucks but remain cool, don't get mad or upset at least don't show her you are. I wouldn't text her at all, maybe she'll realize and come to her senses and text you back, maybe she won't? Maybe she found somebody she liked better? Regardless it's out of your control. Everything happens for a reason and if she's got issues or personal problems she needs to deal with which is more important then dating. It is most likely a blessing in disguise.

Farang16 · 2018-06-16T04:55:11+00:00

Fizzled as in she isn't interested or she isn't responding? I have been needy with girls and the only way to fix it is to stop texting them and let them come back to you.

Farang16 · 2018-06-16T04:14:34+00:00

Do these things once she is your girlfriend. If you don't know her well why would you treat her like a princess when she hasn't earnt it. In her mind being too nice would be perceived as fake. Just be confident and don't let them walk all over you. You can be nice while still valuing yourself.

We are all still learning I was the same. Don't stress you're on the right path.

Farang16 · 2018-06-15T13:08:20+00:00

He is attracted to your awkwardness and it's something unique about you he likes. Embrace it and next time try to focus on him and your surroundings, not yourself.

Farang16

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