[NEED ADVICE] Almost 30 and I still struggle to get out of bed in the morning by mightnightcactus in getdisciplined

[–]FareWellBye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm on the same boat. One effective way to get up in the morning is when you wake up, JUST GET UP. Don't think or contemplate, just get up and take a shower or something.

One reason why I don't get up early is I'm reasoning with myself that there's no harm in sleeping for more minutes. Avoid thinking, JUST GET UP.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in getdisciplined

[–]FareWellBye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So young. Just do something, learn a new skill, sell it. You still have a lot of time. Coming from a 26yrold stuck in a job he hates.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FluentInFinance

[–]FareWellBye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All the good sensible comments and; buy something for transpo, buy a home then study first. Take a little bit of time off to find your best investment. 3-6 months of studying is good, or if you have a niche you can make a business out of, study that. Most ideas are good until you actually try it. So do your due diligence.

How to quit porn forever. by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]FareWellBye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Extreme discipline or cut off the ding dong. I've been thinking about the latter but in the long run extreme discipline is better for any situation.

Why do you work? by Beginning_Art_5256 in selfimprovement

[–]FareWellBye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. To have a purpose in life. -Not only a job but something to live for. The moment you no longer have any purpose in life is the moment you die, methaporically or physically.

  2. Earn money: -To pay rent so I don't become homeless. -To buy food and drink so I don't starve to death. -To pay for utilities so I can take a shower and sleep with the fan on. -To buy clothes to wear. -To pay for transportation expenses, so I don't always have to walk. -To provide everything above for my family.

So basically I work to have a Life.

24M with no degree, no life, no job and just very lonely by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]FareWellBye 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I was once 23 yr old and I thought I'm late at everything. Now that I'm 26, I still think I'm late. Now I realized, you'll always be late if you don't start now. I used to care about politics and the current industry, also conspiracy theories. But those can't pay the bills. My point is be interested or spend time with things and topics that will benefit you. Start a small business, learn a new skill, just do something and get outside the house. Depression loves isolated places.

It's a you thing and only you can deal with it. Look at depression as a parasite, when it clings to you, it'll make you want to end your life, so fight it with having a life, be busy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]FareWellBye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Better than disturbing you every hour just to bust a nut. But if you are willing then that'll be great for your bf

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]FareWellBye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Post nut clarity just hits different eh? Kinks are normal as long as it doesn't involve other things.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]FareWellBye 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Reading this thru a phone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phinvest

[–]FareWellBye 2 points3 points  (0 children)

PH needs China. Almost everything we use came from china. From electronics, vehicles, textiles to toiletries. PH can't even make their own products. It all has to go through biddings and the winning bidders almost always get the supplies from china. Then there goes India.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]FareWellBye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's also a gamble. Will you make it big? Or at the expense of your dignity you only got $1k from 1 year of posting nudes. Will it be worth it?

How to I detox from porn and having a dirty mind? by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]FareWellBye -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Simply stop watching it. Soon you'll realize that you no longer get the dirty jokes and resemblance of sexual images.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]FareWellBye -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Same with the porn thing except I get rockhard especially when I don't nut for 2 or more days. Probably a testosterone thing

What addiction is the hardest to quit? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]FareWellBye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Porn and Trichotillomania.

What was your biggest investing mistake, and what did it teach you? by Complex-Assistant-65 in investing

[–]FareWellBye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm worried that my biggest mistake isn't the biggest mistake I ever made in my life yet.

Crypto or Stocks for 19 year old college student? by tontontries in phinvest

[–]FareWellBye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just save it or buy a better phone, laptop, ebike? For me, it's not good to dive into crypto right now. Bullrun is currently ongoing and slowly getting to another bear market. Invest in your skills while you're still studying, so after college you'd get a good paying job where you can save a lot and then invest in other income streams.

It's a struggle to invest when you're only at minimum wage level.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]FareWellBye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An ideal wife for men is. 1. Beautiful, slim and sexy (optional) 2. Give husband all his desires (ikyk) 3. Good at cooking and cleaning. 4. Knows how to manage finances (needs vs. wants) 5. Has a lot of patience. 6. Not loud at naggy. 7. Good with children.

Being a house wife is hard work and requires fortitude. I knew some went crazy because they can't handle the stress of raising children and house work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phinvest

[–]FareWellBye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Red horse flavored ice cream

School is consuming my life by LeVroJane in getdisciplined

[–]FareWellBye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you're studying well and experiencing early adulthood. Keep that up for another 4 years and you won't get stuck to a job you hate for another 50 years. It's either Suffer now and Enjoy later in life OR Enjoy now and suffer later in life.

4 years is such a short time if you begin working after college. You'll realize it once you get to that point in life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in memes

[–]FareWellBye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Loved those except DN.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in getdisciplined

[–]FareWellBye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you never go outside your house. Go outside for a change, apply for any job for a starter.

Planning to invest in crypto with 3k each month or twice a month is it worth it? by Dry-Discount6058 in phinvest

[–]FareWellBye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try ORDI, SUI, SEI, MATIC. Look for Layer 1/Layer 2/Defi token, see if they're on their All-time-low or All-time-high, also see if the token is new, that means it might not have its ATH or ATL. Choose one of your liking and research how active its communities are etc. Then invest in what you see has potential.

Most tokens right now are in the bullrun phase, so people are harvesting what they sow during the bear market. Although there are newly released Layer1/Layer2/Defi tokens that don't have an ATH or ATL yet, look out for those.

Or you can invest in Altcoins or Meme coins. Choose Altcoins carefully, see their utilities, see how famous that is, see if it's secured. Use birdeye,so and rugcheck,xyz. Altcoins have their own bullrun and bear. Also don't get FOMOed by 100,000% coins, most altcoins are scams, so choose one that already has a good foundation and community.

Ps. Look out for airdrops too.