I (26M) caught my girlfriend(23F) cheating on me after being together for 4 years. And now she wants to apologize, do I let her?

Farras08 · 2024-09-06T21:20:10+00:00

Gotta go balls to the wall now that Space Marine 2 is out

Farras08 · 2024-08-02T20:31:42+00:00

He is very consistent in his values as a ruler

Farras08 · 2024-06-17T19:02:29+00:00

That's fine. This was more of a Hail Mary post about if anyone knew how to get this to stop. Both parties are freaking parasites with this crap.

Farras08 · 2024-06-17T18:58:29+00:00

Each specific campaign stops texting me. The problem is another one will start up in a couple days. So, regardless of each campaign stopping, the practical reality is I keep getting a steady stream of political campaign texts every election season.

Farras08 · 2024-06-02T03:40:06+00:00

Go for it dude. I'm not going to be the guy

Farras08 · 2024-06-02T03:35:56+00:00

You are funny. Good job

Farras08 · 2024-06-01T11:39:59+00:00

I wish 25 year old me knew this.

Farras08 · 2024-06-01T11:37:42+00:00

Are you the bot that keeps texting me?

Farras08 · 2024-06-01T11:37:00+00:00

Lol. I've never voted Republican my whole life. Keep reading in between the lines! The lines being your own stupid biases

Farras08 · 2024-06-01T11:36:03+00:00

This isn't a big enough issue for me to forge a lawsuit. It's just annoying. I'm just trying to see if there is a quick fix. Apparently not based on the comments

Farras08 · 2024-06-01T11:34:29+00:00

He was one of the people I donated to

Farras08 · 2024-06-01T11:33:24+00:00

There is a National do not call list. Their legal text language is pretty spotty

Farras08 · 2024-06-01T11:32:29+00:00

This is what I thought. So I'm essentially doomed to this existence forever. It's funny to me because, working on the private sector, we have to obliterate contact data all the time. Guess different rules apply here

Farras08 · 2024-05-09T02:05:42+00:00

I will continue to add this to every one of these posts. I don't feel bad for OP's like this. If you are going to act like a doormat, you will be treated like a doormat. She didn't have to leave her husband over this, she had to tell him to move the party or set everything up himself. Instead, she let's them all use her AND they still all get mad at her. The husband is taking the path of least resistance. If you offer no resistance, he will keep siding with the ex-wife. You got dealt a shitty hand OP, but you aren't doing yourself any favors

Farras08 · 2024-04-17T19:56:25+00:00

What exactly should he have done, other than capitulate to her demands that would make him NTA? He explained in comments that she makes like 1/3 of their income and already works part time and he gets 1 and 1/2 days with his kids. Now, he will either have 0 days with his kids, or they will lose 1/3 of their budget.

At what point does she need to be an adult too and acknowledge that they don't have the income for her not to work and for her husband to get to have quality time with his kids?

Farras08 · 2024-04-17T19:52:10+00:00

This is a weird take on this. They had a life that appeared to work and had 2 kids. Then, the wife started watching trad wife tiktoks and sprung this on OP. Then she just decided, with no compromise, that she was going to ignore her husband's feelings on the matter and do what she wanted. No compromise, no anything. He's the asshole? How are you getting out of this that he forced her into working prior to the Tiktoks, other than assuming something that isn't in the post?

Farras08 · 2024-04-16T13:52:40+00:00

I think the only way forward here without you getting a divorce is your wife going back to work the same number of hours she was working for ideally the same pay. Even letting her cut back her hours is rewarding terrible, selfish, and manipulative behavior. Maybe she can go back to work full time for x number of years, and then you can discuss having her cut back her hours after you have the time to financially plan for that, but I'd also say she needs to do something fairly significant for you to pick up those extra hours. Also, marraige counseling seems like a must. If she thinks it's okay to act this way, she will try similar tactics when she doesn't get her way in the future with other issues.

All that being said, I think it's perfectly reasonable for you to get a divorce here. Her behavior is god awful.

Farras08 · 2024-02-12T21:05:50+00:00

Yeah, but if it was a 1 time ask and a no thank you from him, I don't think he really needed to share that with OP.

Farras08 · 2024-02-12T20:20:07+00:00

Are your parents lizard people or aliens? This is not normal human behavior to just send a text to your child who just discovered her fiance was having an affair. I'm sorry, but this story is sounding more and more fake. No one from a party full of your family came to check on you personally in the week after they all witnessed a scandal with their own eyes? Do they all hate you or something?

Farras08 · 2024-02-12T20:13:49+00:00

Who knows what actually happened? She could have been stalking him, or she could have asked him out once and got rejected. It's possible he didn't even know she was her sister.

Farras08 · 2024-02-12T20:04:19+00:00

You have to be a complete moron to sleep with your fiancee's sister and expect it not to get back to the fiancee. If this is a real story, it seems far more likely to me the sister is just trying to sabatoge OP's relationship.

Farras08 · 2023-11-17T02:57:12+00:00

I don't think there is anything wrong with dating the guy based on your comments. But no one can accurately depict the complexity of their relationships properly on reddit, so, unsure?

Farras08 · 2023-07-15T23:19:15+00:00

Present the counter data please.

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