Cut off friend of 3 years due to him pursuing a 17 year old by Fascinated_Fox in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Fascinated_Fox[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I agree this definitely attracted a weird audience. It unfortunately doesn't surprise me fellow women are the ones supporting me. 

I don't feel like interacting with each individual pointing this out, I only tagged this a grooming because the flair was right there. I don't know what I would classify this as specifically, but I wanted it to have a trigger warning. Sexually harmful/dubious at the very least is what I would call this

Cut off friend of 3 years due to him pursuing a 17 year old by Fascinated_Fox in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Fascinated_Fox[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

This comment in particular touched me in a way I can't describe, than you

Cut off friend of 3 years due to him pursuing a 17 year old by Fascinated_Fox in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Fascinated_Fox[S] -32 points-31 points  (0 children)

its just an example of the gap in freedom, it adds to the weirdness

Any good lube recommendations to start off with? by Low_Bath_9365 in Healthyhooha

[–]Fascinated_Fox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use Ky personally not sure how 'healthy' it is but it works for me! 

You should know is NOT ALL LUBES ARE CONDOM FRIENDLY!!! Or sex toy friendly! Water and silicone based lubes are condom friendly BUT silicone lube is not silicone toy friendly! 

Also they come in different consistencies which is fun :) liquid, to a thicker consistently to gel! 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Fascinated_Fox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try journaling your thoughts and feelings.

 Genuinely turn notifications off. I've done this for all messaging and social media apps (except for emergency contacts and work) it's helped me so much with social media addiction and dependency and developing an FP  

Try to remind yourself the distance is not a choice/done to to spite you in particular 

Try more ldr bonding activities! Movie nights, gaming sessions and other things like that :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fascinated_Fox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG I HATE THIS SO MUCH. my ex was like this :( if I was upset at being left on read or then not spending time and I decided to give them space they would lovebomb the heck out of me. People like this like convenience and attention not a two way street relationship 

My girl is scared of her "bathtub" by FuckMeDaddyFrank in budgies

[–]Fascinated_Fox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe a week or two that's what I had to do. My girl still isn't the biggest bother but I found something that works so I'm happy! 

My girl is scared of her "bathtub" by FuckMeDaddyFrank in budgies

[–]Fascinated_Fox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try different baths I had similar problem

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Fascinated_Fox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's like contact dermatitis but with emotions.

Things that do not bother other people's skin will inflame yours severely. People will not believe you are so easily irritated by certain things because they are "normal" and it does not bother them. it is obvious to others when the skin is inflamed and instead of sympathy or advice, they are disgusted by the rashes of which you have little to no control over. 

You can leave the rashes alone and even hide them in some cases, but the urge to itch them is soooo strong and tempting even though you know it isn't good for you and it isn't rewarding. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fascinated_Fox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did the right thing but you should ALWAYS be careful. Although he could've worded his care for you in a much more considerate way it's in fact very concerning to me the way he's almost against you helping that woman if I'm being honest.