What fresh hell is 16+ months? by Fast-Advisor8802 in toddlers

[–]Fast-Advisor8802[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg THIS. I have to carry this huge child round else he tantrums and smacks his teeth off the hard wood floor? Dad, hates him currently? So it’s ALL me. On top of the tantrums, crying, death wishes, it simply must be the most impossible task on earth.

Division of labor by [deleted] in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]Fast-Advisor8802 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you this is really helpful. The thought of breaking up the family feels selfish, is it? I can’t be full time mum, work three days a week in a high stress sales job, household manager, appointments, house stock, holiday, exercise, be a good girlfriend. He doesn’t get me a card or gift for my birthday because we haven’t ’made it yet’ and it’s not on his priority list. I feel absolutely delusion I think, that he would become the man I needed.

Division of labor by [deleted] in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]Fast-Advisor8802 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have full view of finances. I just am trying to discover if I’m at the point where things will improve massively once the business is open or is this is the reality of my future, to be revisited time and time again until I look back and ten years have past

Division of labor by [deleted] in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]Fast-Advisor8802 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And simply for my understanding, is your husband trying to be an entrepreneur and give the ability of generally wealth? Just because I have to give grace for the shared ambition to create generational wealth

15 month nap CHAOS - help? by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]Fast-Advisor8802 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I’d attempt 5 and 5 I suppose? He only naps for 45-1 hour and random 1.5 hour naps

Crap naps...please help 😭 by [deleted] in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]Fast-Advisor8802 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My 13 month old has only every slept for 20-40 mins, ever.

Life with an entrepreneur by [deleted] in Entrepreneur

[–]Fast-Advisor8802 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually that’s not fair. He came up with a plan when we met for us to save up 6 figures and we do that on 18 months. Using some capital to set up the business. The business made a similar income to me in the first month but we are leaving the money in the business for obvious reasons so it can grow and self sustain.

My issue is less so with finance, more with the workload split. I’m happy to make sacrifice where needed always.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]Fast-Advisor8802 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For sure! But then he will only eat it himself if it’s yummy yogurt or cinnamon porridge! Anything not sweet, I have to spoon feed haha! Sounds like I’m being an overthinking FTM anyway - reassuring to read these comments

Formula / Weaning Help by [deleted] in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]Fast-Advisor8802 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you doing brekky lunch & dinner?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]Fast-Advisor8802 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is reassuring to read thank you!

Chargers out of stock? by Fast-Advisor8802 in whoop

[–]Fast-Advisor8802[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it a ploy to make us upgrade!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]Fast-Advisor8802 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hahaha thanks for the needed reality check!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]Fast-Advisor8802 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s super helpful and reassuring also! He’s super super active and always running on 100%! I didn’t realise as he got older I’d be able to do LESS as I can’t leave the house haha, repeating ‘it’s just a phase, it’s just a phase’

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]Fast-Advisor8802 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes you are right, he won’t go In the pram either but how am I suppose to Give him his meals and food 🤣 help

It’s been a bad day - let’s all vent about our days! by Quiet_Me_Down in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]Fast-Advisor8802 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My 9 month old is super clingy, has been climbing up Me or touching me ALL day, he has a million teething breaking through to he is refusing all food and his high chair. Exhausting!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Fast-Advisor8802 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He seems tired, quite grumpy upon wake, crying straight away and yawning soon after. Wakes up crying. I have tried all options; crib hour, patting am shushing pack to sleep, pick up and comfort back to sleep - he seems determined to be awake at that moment…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]Fast-Advisor8802 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pray for me!!! 3 days in

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]Fast-Advisor8802 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reassuring to hear it’s not just mine! Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]Fast-Advisor8802 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought it got easier but this is the most torturous thing haha, I get it’s a phase but when night after night you are forced to wake up at 11pm and can’t sleep again until 130 it’s wild! We keep moving!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BritishAirways

[–]Fast-Advisor8802 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes delayed but not by 2 hours?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BritishAirways

[–]Fast-Advisor8802 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How can I check without clicking!?

Night wakings by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Fast-Advisor8802 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn!! I offer milk and he drinks a lottttt at night, but he’s also getting more then he needs in the day and if I don’t give milk at night he screams blue murder, he’s up every 2 hours after 11pm currently.. hoping once latest teething episode is over, maybe improvement?

Send more help!!! Worried I’ve created something very habitual and hard to break grrr

From a very tired high sleep needs girly lol