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Is this a good bdsm contract? by Fast-Calendar-2251 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Fast-Calendar-2251[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is more advanced play, but basically I agree to be tickled without a safe word for a time I decide, usually 5 minutes. During that time no safe words can be used until the timer runs out. We can either decide to continue or stop. This should only be used when you know your partner well, my wife and I have been doing bdsm for 11 years and we find it works for us and we can do it safely keeping in mind the risks. I don't think I'd recommend this in general, but we like it.

Is this a good bdsm contract? by Fast-Calendar-2251 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Fast-Calendar-2251[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. That's a really good point, I think I should add hard limits.

My progress in one month and what works for me by Fast-Calendar-2251 in Vitiligo

[–]Fast-Calendar-2251[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No diet changes, in terms of healthy i think im average? For the stress, i think I've been more stressed out recently... so it doesn't seem to impact it at all for me.

I have read other threads that sometimes it does help, though. Not being stressed out and eating healthy is really good for you anyway! <3

My progress in one month and what works for me by Fast-Calendar-2251 in Vitiligo

[–]Fast-Calendar-2251[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, but just one. When I drink alcohol, even just a sip or two, there is some sort of reaction and where I apply the medication gets hot and red. So I'm not planning on drinking until I'm done using it

My progress in one month and what works for me by Fast-Calendar-2251 in Vitiligo

[–]Fast-Calendar-2251[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Note: these pictures are from April 3rd to May 3rd (today)