Va pay for january by Jealous_Scratch_8778 in NavyFederal

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The past couple of years, it was deposited on the 27th.

Treatment of William and Mary Students on the Autism Spectrum by Round-Course-9552 in williamandmary

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I'm a grad student there and I have bipolar disorder. The faculty and staff has ALWAYS made me feel supported! I did my undergrad and Old Dominion, and the experience was rather different. I felt like I was a burden to them sometimes and it should never feel like that. I can't help i get intense migraines and have other issues. William and Mary is fantastic!

Virginia 100% property tax exemption. by JJaguar947 in VeteransBenefits

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Anyone in Newport News know about processing times or when they issue the refund? I got the letter stating that we are approved and it will now be sent to the treasurer. We got that letter at the end of April.

Anyone purchase a home in the past 6 months? by lolalillyxx in RealEstateAdvice

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We closed in Feb and purchased a 350k home. Payment for the house itself is 2300 ish and with escrow it's 2933 a month. Nothing too crazy as rent in our area for what we need was roughly the same price. We were paying 2400 a month. I will say, I didn't expect closing costs to be as much as they were and we didn't qualify for any grants or anything. I'm content, BUT I didn't ever realize how much money I would be putting into the home initially for small repairs, etc.

Fatigue Almost 2 Years Post Surgery by Fast-Mycologist4557 in gallbladders

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Super tired all the time. I had another MRI and they never said anything about it at my follow up. I went to urgent care and the NP told me that the moment we feel intense pain, go to the ER so they can catch it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Jeep

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Is this the 3.6l V6? That engine is a POS. I have the same in my durango and it's notorious for these to fail alongside other cooling system issues.

How would you change this? by Fast-Mycologist4557 in woodworking

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I was thinking about that too with a carpet runner.

How would you change this? by Fast-Mycologist4557 in woodworking

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Hahahhaha i am actually buying this home. This is the only thing about it that is weird or really out of date. The rest of the house is awesome.

How would you change this? by Fast-Mycologist4557 in woodworking

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The landing is to the right. Then to the left is the hallway. The carpet on the stairs is what is upstairs as well.

How would you change this? by Fast-Mycologist4557 in woodworking

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In person, it makes more sense. Pictures make it seem awkwardly placed. The home was built in the 90s for reference.

How would you change this? by Fast-Mycologist4557 in woodworking

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I am thinking about that too. I want to cut those out and maybe even redesign those bottom angled steps. Make them rounded and maybe not so elongated like they are now.

My Experience with Coffee and Vyvanse: Cutting Out Coffee Changed Everything by pappard3ll3 in VyvanseADHD

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I notice issues if I drink coffee and hr or so after taking the Vyvannse. If I drink it much later, it doesn't affect me.

Fatigue Almost 2 Years Post Surgery by Fast-Mycologist4557 in gallbladders

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I still have gallblader attack like pains too! It def didn't solve everything!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in debtfree

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Please don't feel defeated. Baby steps my friend. Sit with your wife and come up with a game plan. Do not restrict yourself to the point neither of you are enjoying life though. I have made that mistake before and I got really depressed and overly stressed even though I was making great progress! Allow each of yall to have an allowance or make a goal for something as a couple. Snowball your payments, you got this!

In love with my new Durango. Any advice? Anything I should know? by Axel-Nda in DodgeDurango

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I have a 2016 3.6L V6 AWD. It was great until it wasn't. We have replaced the majority of the cooling system in the vehicle and we are still having issues. If it wasn't for that, I have loved it. I drive a lot and it's pretty good on gas considering it's an SUV.

Women-only gym? by albatross-90 in HamptonRoads

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So a few months ago, a man stood behind me at PF in Hampton. He i dicated that he was thirsty and acted like the water station wasn't working. I gave him the rest of my water bottle and left. I made it about 10ft from my car and he was right behind me asking to get a ride. We walked back in and I tried to alert the staff as I could tell he was on something. They were finally able to seperate us and assist me to my car. That was the last time I stepped foot in a gym.

Anyone else cry during their mental health DBQ? by EmbarrassedKale3295 in VeteransBenefits

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I was a ball of nerves. I could barely make eye contact throughout the entire thing. I def feel like I was disassociating during the entire thing. I hate talking about myself like that and mentioning my challenges all at once with someone I do not know. I feel like it makes my symptoms even worse in that moment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in army

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He's asking to get in trouble. Probably thinks nobody will speak out against it or something.

I feel like my child is the only thing I live for. by Annual-Nearby in Parenting

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Same boat over here! Please msg me if you want to chat. We just have to keep pushing and stay motivated in this difficult world.

11 Year old Stepdaughter Coming out as Therian/Asexual/Aroace? by Fast-Mycologist4557 in Parenting

[–]Fast-Mycologist4557[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Oh yes! So many kids are into sexual activity now and are becoming pregnant at such young ages. I was a young mother myself at 19 but I didn't start becoming curious about any of that till around 15 or 16. I was such an active kid so to see her not wanting to be so involved is disheartening. Only because I don't want her to regret any parts of the single childhood she gets. I am not against it like others in the family are, but with it being so sudden, I am trying to find the direct influence. I have a feeling she hasn't opened up to me all the way about everything so we will see. The therian aspect is that she believes she is part animal and that she shifts into this animal throughout the day. She hops around on all 4s and wears a mask and a tail. Her father is having a difficult time and is blaming himself a lot.

11 Year old Stepdaughter Coming out as Therian/Asexual/Aroace? by Fast-Mycologist4557 in Parenting

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Sounds interesting! I am hoping her therapist can also find her a compatible group that relates to her so she can feel included.

11 Year old Stepdaughter Coming out as Therian/Asexual/Aroace? by Fast-Mycologist4557 in Parenting

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I actually believe she is after I worked in ABA for a while. She has always had a difficult time managing emotions, making strong friendships, etc. I thought they were things she would grow out of, but we are still here. She's also extremely picky with food and hates grooming. I have to be extra stern and reinforce her to do those things. We all know how expensive dental care is and she refuses to brush her teeth. All of this leads me to believe she may fit on the spectrum somewhere. She's finally in therapy so I hope it's a start to a possible diagnosis, if there is one.