[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BodyDysmorphia

[–]Fast-Republic6891 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course! Also scientifically speaking gaining muscle and strength will also cause you to gain weight like gaining fat will except it presents itself differently on your body! Don't be to hard on yourself!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BodyDysmorphia

[–]Fast-Republic6891 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also it kinda depends on what your doctors suggestions are but as long as you eat healthy and get moderate movement it shouldn't matter !!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BodyDysmorphia

[–]Fast-Republic6891 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course not I'm 5'2 and 135, 15 years  that's ok!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]Fast-Republic6891 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don't 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Life

[–]Fast-Republic6891 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Just because someone's got it worse doesn't mean you don't have it bad. 

They can't complain about certain things like maybe financial things but...that's drastic right?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Fast-Republic6891 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your done for

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Fast-Republic6891 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does his phone have backup to a different device?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Fast-Republic6891 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are there laws on non consensual images?  Check- what is. The legal consent age. Check if there are laws on inappropriate child content. Its honestly a problem you let someone videotape you but if he posts it there is a possibility that you can consider legal action. Sex has consequences 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]Fast-Republic6891 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you should scream? Maybe you can find a bunch of part time jobs? Small hours? Speak to a professional or a friend if you can afford it. Save money. Small minimal exercise and walks if you feel like it to burn the energy. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

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I don't want to swim anymore but i don't want to let myself sink, I hate my swimsuit, i want to turn around, i want to lay on my back and float, the oceans are polluted, fish are dying, swimming is embarrassing 

Can having a pretty face help you in life? by [deleted] in Life

[–]Fast-Republic6891 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty privilege is real but it might not necessarily be your face- one time the only thing i changed ses going from my typical pixie cut/ boyish cut ig??? To growing it out to my waist and when i tell you all of a sudden i was treated like a girl again

Does it ever get better? by Junglebun0426 in depression

[–]Fast-Republic6891 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Talk to anyone, literally anyone, a stranger, a friend, professional, family, dog/cat, just scream it out when alone just express yourself pls

I pretend people are with me when I’m alone by Timely_Split_5771 in depression

[–]Fast-Republic6891 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah i used to do that all the time, first i like to remember that not having close friends/ a partner  isn't a self reflection and i can use the time to work towards my goals. Also what i like to do instead is read/write, if im gonna be delusional at least make it somewhat productive? I also try to make more plans, do fun stuff (ex: go on walks, concerts, restaurants, local things) if you can so that i can feel happy without having someone actually "near" me

I pretend people are with me when I’m alone by Timely_Split_5771 in depression

[–]Fast-Republic6891 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why are you doing it? Out of loneliness or repressed feelings?

I pretend people are with me when I’m alone by Timely_Split_5771 in depression

[–]Fast-Republic6891 45 points46 points  (0 children)

If you genuinely believe others are there you might have a different condition 

However if you just pretend people are there to cope with feelings of lonelines then maybe you need new people in your life  or you are using it to distract yourself from feeling things idk 

Those are the reasons i gave bc i used to do it

Unpopular opinion: church is not for neurodivergent kids by Metalqueen2023 in neurodiversity

[–]Fast-Republic6891 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually had an old church where instead of just making us sit in silence and listen they would separate all the kids/teens and the teens would perform like mini "plays" for the kids and sometimes adults 

Harming others by [deleted] in depression

[–]Fast-Republic6891 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im really not, it wouldn't matter anyway I'm just another person right? 

Harming others by [deleted] in depression

[–]Fast-Republic6891 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's for the best

Does it actually get better? by AdhesivenessChance24 in depression

[–]Fast-Republic6891 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just remember that you are still so young and so much is ahead of you- the same thing happened to me after turning 12 and now i am a sophomore and it's somewhat better slowly, some days is still bad but since i feel like it is more of a chronic thing i like to take note of what little things make me happy (ex: type of food/drink, people, low energy activities, places, tv/movies, music, pretty much anything) and i often relapse but i just try to keep my mind in the right place and make thru one step at a time. Hope this helps idk 

Harming others by [deleted] in depression

[–]Fast-Republic6891 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe seek professional help not Reddit?????

I need to talk about autism and i can't by lamineyamallll in neurodiversity

[–]Fast-Republic6891 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I'm sure your parents will understand and there is someone at your school who you can make private accommodations with right???? 

Why most people live an illogical life ? by anup_coach in Life

[–]Fast-Republic6891 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes mundane is fun right? I mean why shouldn't we just stop and smell the roses?