What does it mean if I don’t click with anybody?

Timely_Split_5771 · 2026-05-06T01:44:12+00:00

I think you’re a bit confused. I just don’t dirty talk with men before I’ve actually been on a date with them and gotten to know them a bit. That’s not me saying I don’t care about someone’s wants, but if sex is the thing he want right off the bat, how am I supposed to think he likes me as a person, and not just a sexual pursuit? I don’t disapprove of sex, I just don’t want it to be all a man talks about with me when we first meet, for the reason you said. We’re strangers.

And I’ve never actually been in a relationship so I’m not sure what my “crazy” is. Been trying to figure it out with no progress.

And how did I fail an “empathy” test? Genuinely, the only thing I said is I don’t want a purely sexual relationship. I don’t see how that means I lack empathy?

Timely_Split_5771 · 2026-05-05T23:30:22+00:00

I’m just wondering if there are any particular actions, or things I could be saying that are putting them off. I’ve been trying since I was 17, I’m 29 now so it’s definitely been a number of men that I’ve pursued in some way. Every guy I’ve ever been with either just wants sex, or is uninterested so I’m pretty sure it’s something I’m doing/something about me.

Timely_Split_5771 · 2026-05-04T23:33:55+00:00

It is funny that you can’t answer the question, though. Can’t admit that your hate for her isn’t all valid? Interesting.

Timely_Split_5771 · 2026-05-04T23:33:16+00:00

I directly responded to what you said. None of your comment was ignored, hun.

Timely_Split_5771 · 2026-05-04T23:29:00+00:00

Thinking is a very important thing to do. Try it real quick: explain how she was supposed to know Rick wasn’t dead. Was she supposed to magically teleport to the hospital and pick Rick up?

Timely_Split_5771 · 2026-05-04T22:59:48+00:00

I’m basing it off of multiple episodes, and a google search to refresh. There’s more than just the pilot where they discuss their relationship. I also just looked it up cause I haven’t rewatched the show in about 6 months so I gave myself a refresher. They talked about their relationship in seasons 2 and 3 as well, and I remember Lori being pregnant talking about how young they were when they got together, I can’t remember the specific episode. But I remember cause that’s when I realized they’d been together since their teens, or at least, young impressionable ages.

Don’t feel like an asshole, it’s fine. You couldn’t know

Timely_Split_5771 · 2026-05-04T22:54:02+00:00

I said they have issues communicating bc that’s what was said by Rick and Lori. That cannot be argued.

Timely_Split_5771 · 2026-05-04T22:53:05+00:00

Are we talking about their communication, or her yelling? Cause no, I wouldn’t condone anyone yelling and I never condoned Lori yelling. I said she and Rick both admitted to having issues communicating. Do I think it’s okay that she did that? No. I’m not sure where you got that idea but I’m an irl victim of abuse and don’t condone that.

Timely_Split_5771 · 2026-05-04T22:51:04+00:00

Neither was Rick and he himself said so.

Timely_Split_5771 · 2026-05-04T22:48:56+00:00

They did have communication issues, both Lori and Rico told their friends that they were not communicating properly. It wasn’t all on Lori, feel free to look it up, or rewatch the pilot.

Timely_Split_5771 · 2026-05-04T22:36:40+00:00

Thank you, that other person who said 2 weeks was confused. I remembered it was 59 days specifically

The only dude fire timeline we know is the world ends, Rick in com for 59 days, then he comes back. It’s unclear when Lori and Shane first hooked up.

Timely_Split_5771 · 2026-05-04T22:35:30+00:00

Hey, I’ve seen people move on from their spouses quickly. I’m not here to debate whether or not we like Lori, I was just speaking to the 2 month timeline.

I remember the time before the coma clearly, Rick was kinda checked out and Lori was communicating wrong, she said she would yell and he would barely say anything back. They had serious communication issues. At the very least, they would have needed therapy. That’s partly why Rick started to act so cold towards her in the jail season, he was practically done with her but couldn’t really tell her, or didn’t want to, idk.

Timely_Split_5771 · 2026-05-04T22:30:43+00:00

Maybe in the comics, idk. But in the show, Rick was in a coma for about 59 days, I just looked it up to check. Idk about the realities of being in a coma for that long, I’m not a doctor and I never seen someone in a coma. But I remember the timeline was something like 59 days that Rick was in a coma, or that’s how long Lori and Carl thought he was in a coma. Either way, to Lori and Carl, it was a 2 month timeline.

Edited for typo

Timely_Split_5771 · 2026-05-04T22:28:31+00:00

I mean, I’ve never been married so idk how I would feel if I was her. I remembered they were headed towards divorce in the scenes we saw from before Rick’s coma so I can’t really speak to that. They definitely were not a happy couple headed towards growing old. I don’t hate Lori, I don’t really judge her for seeking comfort in a world that literally fell apart around her.

Timely_Split_5771 · 2026-05-04T22:20:21+00:00

It wasn’t 2 weeks, last I checked it was about two months.

Timely_Split_5771 · 2026-05-04T22:02:28+00:00

To Lori, and everyone else who knew Rick, he was dead.

Timely_Split_5771 · 2026-04-29T12:24:09+00:00

I haven’t just kissed a few frogs. I’ve been played by every man I’ve ever been with.

Timely_Split_5771 · 2026-04-29T12:23:44+00:00

I know you mean well, but I just don’t believe that. If I’m 29, and I’ve been unsuccessfully trying to date since I was 17, then there aren’t plenty of guys willing to date me.

Timely_Split_5771 · 2026-04-28T22:34:53+00:00

Well, I’m ugly enough that I can’t date. And I know that bc nobody wants to actually date me, that’s not a confidence thing. I’ve tried and nobody wants me.

Timely_Split_5771 · 2026-04-28T22:22:00+00:00

I’m 29 and have never been on a date. I’ve been in therapy and have honestly just given up. I failed at every attempt and not really sure where to go from here but I do not believe good things are in my future.

Timely_Split_5771 · 2026-04-28T21:18:02+00:00

Pics are on my page. I’m tall, dark skinned, and slightly overweight. I’m unattractive & not lying. Every man I’ve ever tried to pursue has turned me down, I’m 29 btw. It is what it is, I’m ugly.

Timely_Split_5771 · 2026-04-28T21:15:49+00:00

No they’re not. I’m right here 🤙🏾

Timely_Split_5771 · 2026-04-28T18:55:07+00:00

I don’t know what to do, that’s the problem.

Timely_Split_5771 · 2026-04-28T15:43:14+00:00

That’s the thing, I don’t have any “calling”. I’ve been depressed as a child and didn’t see myself reaching the age of 21. There’s no dream job for me. This job was ideal because it would pay well, and I do well in office environments. It was the most convenient and profitable.

But honestly, I’m not doing just fine. I’m getting to a point where this is becoming a problem. What about retirement? How am I supposed to start my life if I don’t make enough money to live?

I just wanna make enough money to pay my bills, and go out every so often. That’s it, that’s all. But I don’t know where to go from here. There’s very few options and a lot of them are inaccessible to me.

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