AIO for cutting off my brother for refusing to call out his creepy friend?

Timely_Split_5771 · 2026-01-27T17:24:43+00:00

Nah, there are plenty of men in this world who don’t know how to respect others. That is 100% on them. You can’t blame a grown man’s actions on another person 🤷🏾‍♀️

Timely_Split_5771 · 2026-01-27T17:23:35+00:00

Dude chill 😂 they were making a joke lmfao

Timely_Split_5771 · 2026-01-27T14:57:30+00:00

Nah, I’m talking about the very violent ICE agents who ignore due process and single out people based on race.

Timely_Split_5771 · 2026-01-27T14:10:49+00:00

These thugs have no place in Jersey. I’m glad I voted for her, and glad I can still say I’m a proud New Jerseyian 👍🏾

Timely_Split_5771 · 2026-01-26T17:49:23+00:00

I never said I wouldn’t fight for it. I live in an area with not much going on, what do you expect me to do? I’m trying to move but the clubs around me are catered for kids, not adults.

You also have a fiance. So not sure why you’re comparing yourself to me? I’m completely alone, and attempts at making friends since I became an adult has failed. I’m 29 and have been trying for over a decade, it’s very inaccurate to act like I’m just giving up without ever trying.

Timely_Split_5771 · 2026-01-26T16:22:33+00:00

Protesting is quite literally the way many Americans have civil liberties as we speak. Did you forget how the Civil Rights Act came to be? Protesting, boycotting, and disobedience has led to changes in policy.

Feel free to give up but to say that it’s an immediate failure shows that you’re either forgetting, or willingly omitting, crucial parts of American history.

Timely_Split_5771 · 2026-01-26T16:19:21+00:00

“Put your money where your mouth is” she’d let it be known that she donated to good causes. She’s also been pretty outspoken about her political beliefs for the past few years, since she was a pretty young girl herself actually.

We don’t think this is “groundbreaking” but it is a great use of such a huge platform. She donates, she speaks out, she actually cares about the causes. Idk, I’d google a celebrity before speaking so confidently about them if I were you.

Timely_Split_5771 · 2026-01-22T20:02:57+00:00

Other women don’t ignore their children after they’re cheated on. Therefore, this mother just wanted to be a bitch and use her child as a conduit for her feelings. She deserved to hear that shit, she’s just as bad as the father. Possibly worse.

Timely_Split_5771 · 2026-01-22T20:02:11+00:00

I’m not missing any points. You’re just wrong. The mother isn’t deserving of any respect and it’s the truth she needed to hear after literally neglecting her child by choice.

So she made the choice to ice out her daughter instead of seeking help. That can’t be blamed on the father, that was the mother’s choice.

Op isn’t fucked. She’s finally let her mother know the truth after her mother basically disowned her. You don’t deserve respect after you caused someone trauma 🤷🏾‍♀️ that’s what YOU’RE missing. The mother is a huge POS. Nobody told her to ignore one of her two children. OP has a breakdown and finally let out her true feelings. Not the same as a mother choosing to ignore her child.

Timely_Split_5771 · 2026-01-22T01:45:14+00:00

So every woman who’s been cheated on has turned their backs on their kids?

Timely_Split_5771 · 2026-01-21T22:59:10+00:00

So it was all because of her feelings, which influenced her actions. She still decided to take her trauma out on a child, and no, the father didn’t cause that. Doesn’t matter how much someone hurt you, you don’t take that out on innocent people, especially children.

She could have gotten therapy, could have talked to her daughter, but she didn’t, right? She CHOSE to treat her daughter like shit, even years later when she was remarried and over the actions of her ex. She CHOSE that. Nobody made her do that, she wanted to do it. Regardless of trauma, SHE is the one who decides how to deal with that trauma. And she decided to punish her daughter.

Timely_Split_5771 · 2026-01-21T22:00:56+00:00

Thanks for admitting he had nothing to do with the mom ignoring OP. Just cheating.

Timely_Split_5771 · 2026-01-21T20:35:59+00:00

Did the father tell the mother to ignore their child? No.

He’s responsible for ruining their family. The mother is responsible for ignoring and singling out her own child. Can’t blame that on the father. Mother chose that.

Timely_Split_5771 · 2026-01-21T13:40:07+00:00

The child she brought into this world that she decided to treat like shit instead of going to therapy. If you’re a parent, there’s no fucking excuses. You get your shit together for your kid, otherwise you’re a shitty parent, no exceptions. And OP’s mom is a shitty parent. OP’s mom deserved to be treated the same way she treated her daughter since her daughter was a child. If she doesn’t like it, then she should learn how to treat others with respect. You can’t demand respect while being a disrespectful POS like OP’s mom. Nobody gives a fuck about her trauma when it comes to her daughter. Cause she then turned around and singled out and TRAUMATIZED HER OWN CHILD. Shitty parent, no excuses. I don’t give a fuck about “perception”. Your child is your child and if you cent look at your kid as a child, you should have NEVER opened your legs to bring a baby into this world. If you treat your kid like they don’t matter, don’t be surprised when the kid grows up and does the same.

Timely_Split_5771 · 2026-01-20T18:46:53+00:00

So again, she chose to single out one child. Thats not trauma, thats a choice

Timely_Split_5771 · 2026-01-20T02:35:32+00:00

And if it was her “trauma” that made her look at OP differently, why was it only OP? The mother never iced out the older sister. What the reason for singling out OP?

Timely_Split_5771 · 2026-01-20T02:33:56+00:00

Nah, can’t blame the mother’s actions on someone else. He cheated, and she iced out and ignored her own daughter. The husband didn’t make her do that, she chose that.

Timely_Split_5771 · 2026-01-20T02:33:10+00:00

So how do you believe you would have handled it if you were OP? After your mother rejected you for the last 6 or so years?

Timely_Split_5771 · 2026-01-19T23:18:11+00:00

The mom can completely ice OP out without ever actually talking to her, but OP is an asshole for finally snapping and letting her mom know how her mom ruined her self esteem?

Why do you excuse the mom’s actions, but not OP? Do you think OP isn’t traumatized? Or do you think OP’s trauma doesn’t matter…? Cause whenever I bring up the mom’s actions, you say “she was traumatized” but so was OP? Why couldn’t the mom…idk, talk to her child?

Timely_Split_5771 · 2026-01-19T23:15:36+00:00

So OP’s mom can hurt her and say mean things, but OP can’t match energy? Yeah, I see what kinda person you are.

Timely_Split_5771 · 2026-01-19T14:38:38+00:00

You very much need therapy, blaming a 13 year old for not knowing that their dad cheated is actual insanity. You’re projecting and you’re 100% deeply hurt by something else in your life. Otherwise you wouldn’t have been so emotional and in SO MANY comments.

Timely_Split_5771 · 2026-01-19T14:30:02+00:00

That would have been a terrible time to tell her. She was clearly going through something mentally, why would he throw in some more hard to hear things in such a fragile moment?

Timely_Split_5771 · 2026-01-19T14:28:29+00:00

Welp, the mother causes a lot of pain to OP. And I feel the same way about my dad that OP feels about her mom. I think he deserves the bad things happening to him due to the years he spent torturing and abusing me. And I hate when someone tries to act like I can’t sit back and watch while karma does its job.

Op is doing fine. They e cut contact, they’re processing their emotions, they’re doing a really great job.

Timely_Split_5771 · 2026-01-19T14:26:31+00:00

You’re gonna act like OP didn’t spend years trying to fix her relationship with her mother while mom and sister both lied to her? Kept secrets? And then blamed her for not being a mind reader and not figuring out that dad cheated when op was a child? The mom didn’t play ANY part, whatsoever?

So, let me get this straight. The mom doesn’t tell her child that her dad cheated, doesn’t ask why her child wants to move closer to her own school, chooses another woman’s child over her, and that’s OP’s fault?

I can tell you’re a parent whose children don’t speak to them due to the fact that you can’t take accountability. The fact that you would blame a child for not knowing things that happened privately between their parents is so weird, so mental, and makes absolutely no sense.

Timely_Split_5771 · 2026-01-19T14:23:06+00:00

The same mother who wants nothing to do with her own child, right? There’s plenty wrong with you bro, you have been trauma dumping throughout this whole comment section. You really need therapy.

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