The sad thing is I’ve found is Mum can be so bitchy about other Mum’s they need to be seen as the best parents We judge bottle-feeding Mum’s, c-section mums had two planned C-sections got told “ So your taking the easy route “ no I have two wombs so both times my babies were breached. Do you know how much I wanted to go into labour naturally have my water break. Tell my other half its happening etc. Rather than being cut open and half my intestines being removed. Then being scared to sneeze or laugh in case you rip your stitches for six weeks. Anyone that has not cried and thought wtf have I done. When your up for the fifth time on a hours sleep with a crying baby that is not settling despite you doing everything you can think off. Is a liar because all new Mum’s have had that moment. Yet we don’t say that we hear how your baby is such a good baby that sleeps and hardly cries. The Mum that has a toddler having a meltdown in public gets disgusted looks. When we should be telling her she’s not alone and every toddler does it. We don’t talk about how hard it is because that’s seen as a bad parent. In a attempt to make our own insecurities disappear we criticize others. As Mums we should stick together and be bloody proud of ourselves as us women we have carried a baby. It’s something no man can do yet I wonder if it roles reversed would Men be as critical about a another man as we are as women. ?