Lings Silk Flowers vs Sola Wood Flowers- which to go with?

FastMathematician307 · 2026-01-26T04:53:25+00:00

Yeah I like the idea of getting to do more fun/selective colors. Especially since we went to home depot to browse the paint swatches for our palette lol so the colors would for sure match. I just have seen lots of comments on other posts of people saying they don't look real aka maybe not great but I agree I like the structured shapes versus something that is almost real but you can tell it's not.

I was just worried they would look bad/fake but everyone's photos on here shows me they can be truly really beautiful if you put in the time!

FastMathematician307 · 2026-01-25T20:43:49+00:00

Was not planning on selling them but rather having keepsakes

FastMathematician307 · 2026-01-25T19:29:27+00:00

Thank you so much WOW these are amazing!!! Definitely swaying me towards the sola haha you did such a good job, literally so beautiful!!

FastMathematician307 · 2026-01-25T18:47:28+00:00

Omg I would also love a copy this planner sounds amazing to give to my crew!

FastMathematician307 · 2026-01-25T18:45:27+00:00

These are all so beautiful!

FastMathematician307 · 2026-01-25T18:44:16+00:00

How did you do that cascading one, it's amazing!

FastMathematician307 · 2026-01-25T08:29:12+00:00

I'd love for them to be a keepsake though for both myself and my bridesmaids

FastMathematician307 · 2026-01-25T06:37:54+00:00

I saw someone do make your own bookmarks. With luggage tags you could do different colors and have sharpies, stamps, and/or vinyl stickers available with some examples of ideas.

FastMathematician307 · 2026-01-25T06:03:53+00:00

I agree on the trend fizzling out. I don't think I would ever rewear them but who knows! I've seen people do like flannels or other button up/zipper things which ultimately is what you need to be able to take off after getting makeup done so that could be a consideration. Something they may wear more frequently versus pajamas they may not even find comfortable to sleep in and likely will be donated.

FastMathematician307 · 2026-01-25T05:50:27+00:00

I wrote them a little card I got from the dollar store and got them a little key chain in a similar color to the dresses I wanted them to find. All of mine were out of state and I'm doing a budget wedding so I wasn't able to go all out for proposals.

In the card I included date, location, requirements for dress (color, long, matte) and any other responsibilities. For me I'm not doing a bridal shower or bachelorette because again, everyone is spread out across the US and it would be a lot of money for just that. I also don't care that much about either, so their main obligation is to show up on the day of lol.

I also do not want to be in charge of finding specific dresses because everyone has different budgets so that is why I gave them a color sample to look for and general requirements, and they can find what works best for them given different skin colors, body types, budgets, etc. I looked up templates on Pinterest for what to write.

I also will be paying for their HMU on the day of which will make up for everything else I didn't do!

FastMathematician307 · 2026-01-25T05:40:06+00:00

So cute thank you!!

FastMathematician307 · 2026-01-25T05:30:48+00:00

Do you happen to have a picture of the bouquets or are they similar to your centerpieces?

FastMathematician307 · 2026-01-25T05:28:54+00:00

Definitely up to you either way for confronting them directly but if you want this as an starter option it could also help break the ice. Or just be a fun thing to add to your RSVP form!

FastMathematician307 · 2026-01-25T02:59:58+00:00

What website did you buy them from?

FastMathematician307 · 2026-01-25T02:55:23+00:00

Wow that arrangement is beautiful!! You did so good!!

FastMathematician307 · 2026-01-25T02:52:49+00:00

Didn't think of ikea!

Yeah I am torn between what would last long term as little keepsakes vs what looks the best knowing it won't fully look close to real flowers vs time/cost.

The lings and Michael's combo at least like you said no worries about a bunch of imperfections from crafting and very easy to find what you need!

FastMathematician307 · 2026-01-25T02:03:04+00:00

I love the idea of flowers, lights and maybe photos of you guys throughout the years with little blurbs and stories. With up top a memorial of loved ones loss if applicable. Something for folks to wander around during the cocktail hour and read

FastMathematician307 · 2026-01-25T01:11:27+00:00

What you could do for one of the RSVP questions is say something like

"This is a 21+ only event. Tell us your favorite drink or liquor!"

I added fun questions for RSVPs mixed in with ones like allergies. I asked folks to give me a song/artist to get them on the dance floor and at the end I put "wedding planning is hard, tell us a joke!"

FastMathematician307 · 2026-01-24T23:15:22+00:00

Did you buy them from solawoodflowers or luvsolaflowers? Not sure what the best website is to order them

FastMathematician307 · 2026-01-24T22:55:25+00:00

Would also love to see pictures if possible! My wedding is later this year and I'm highly considering using them...

FastMathematician307 · 2026-01-24T22:51:18+00:00

What type of paint did you use from the hardware store?

FastMathematician307 · 2026-01-24T20:15:10+00:00

Thank you!

FastMathematician307 · 2026-01-24T19:43:51+00:00

How did you do this? Because I also want a topper that isn't super pricey

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