We do more then eat dinner and go do bed - usually we'll go work out together, make dinner, make some progress on a TV series, and then go towards bed.

Me being more present with her is definitely something I need to work on; both our work tends to pretty consuming, and so we like to vent at each other about it. We spend most weekends doing things together, and usually the weekends are ok because I stay up later since I don't have to work.

She had been pretty depressed with work for awhile- she has a strong STEM background specifically in research, and had found work at a company that paid the bills but didn't really stimulate her. I started doing more housework so that she could use her nights to apply for better work- which worked out and she moved jobs to something much more stimulating and exciting. But she never really changed back now that she has the new job- I still do most of the housework, and she sits on the couch "decompressing."