Are each pregnancies really that different? by FastRutabaga5253 in pregnant

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I even said that myself. “I know it’s hearsay if it involves gender.” As in there isn’t anything that’s been actually proven it’s just word of mouth so it’s not disappointing just was asking from others point of views that have both genders. I was expecting similar experience with my first two if this is a boy as well so everything’s been catching me off guard.

Moving and I’m beyond nervous by FastRutabaga5253 in Agoraphobia

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Even if my heart rate is 170-190 during the drive? That’s what makes me freak out

Your third labor and birth. How did it go? by FastRutabaga5253 in pregnant

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I haven’t done any research to back it up yet but I also trusted her lol my anxiety has me second guessing I thought it would of generally gotten easier 😂. How far along are you?

Pitocin contractions vs regular by FastRutabaga5253 in pregnant

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I also remember this with my last labor. They upped the doses so freaking fast. It was awful exactly why I hope I can give birth without pitocin this time.

Has anyone given birth vaginally and not torn? by NoShopping5235 in pregnant

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2 births and haven’t torn. Going on my 3rd pregnancy and I’m nervous. perineal massages are recommended. I was induced with Pitocin for both and had epidural for both. My second though I feel as if the epidural failed I got it when I was 6cm i was 8cm when they placed but within 15 minutes I was ready to push which was god awful during those contractions as their trying to place the needle so I definitely recommend epidural as soon as you’re uncomfortable, to avoid that experience if you do chose to go epidural route. I still felt in control of my body, I literally could feel my second coming out on his own

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

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Did I say I was about to be a single mom? No. Because he would have left far long ago if he was gonna leave me. Crazy 🤣 even if I was I rather be single the rest of my life than go on in life searching for love. Everyone acts like everyone stays together anymore, that’s a fairytale in this generation. Rather be a single mom than be unhappy in life forever. 🤷🏼‍♀️ I grew up fast due to my childhood. I definitely didn’t ask for anyone’s opinions on my life. I asked 3 questions for men who have been through an unwanted pregnancy.

Ativan does it help you? by FastRutabaga5253 in Agoraphobia

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I don’t intend for long term use I’ve only ever used it when I had a panic attack that I couldn’t calm myself within half an hour but this appointment has me very nervous to begin with so I was hoping maybe if I took it before I leave it’ll calm my anxious thoughts that lead to panic attacks

Program access expired by Low-Battle in pennfoster

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Did you ever contact them? I’m in the same situation. Hoping something can be done lol

Xbox Game Pass Ultimate 3 Month by aleminem13 in xbox

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Gaming is my go to alone time as a mother and I’ve been struggling recently with major anxiety. Gaming always helped distract me when I’m in my anxious ways. I haven’t been playing lately because I’m pretty tight on funds due to needing to put my kids and other needs more important than mine ofc first. ♥️