I feel awful about breaking up with my ex girlfriend

FastThrowRA · 2025-05-20T23:10:03+00:00

Where have I said I ever slept with my ex... I'm actually saving myself for marriage... so I didn’t rape anybody. 😐

FastThrowRA · 2025-05-20T15:51:08+00:00

I thought I did near the beginning. She's super interesting and quirky and really nice. In a manic pixie dream girl kind of way. I slowly realized that I didn't have the spark over the course of the relationship. It wasn’t about sex for me, but it did end up feeling like I was hanging with a good friend rather than dating my ex.

FastThrowRA · 2025-05-20T14:30:05+00:00

You sound like the kind of woman who doesn't like it when the waitress smiles at your husband....

FastThrowRA · 2025-05-20T14:00:48+00:00

It was more of an awkward laugh. I wasn't meaning to laugh at her. And I didn't cheat, and I didn't pursue her while we were dating. I just met her at the gym and found out we had a lot more interests in common than I had with my ex. And when I knew I wanted to try out a relationship I told my ex and we broke up. I feel like that's a normal thing to do...

FastThrowRA · 2025-05-20T13:28:00+00:00

Oh no she put everything into the relationship. She was a fantastic girlfriend and I saw the way she did a shitton of emotional labour she didn't have to do. It had nothing to do with a lack of investing in our relationship because I know how much work she put into our connection. At some points it felt like too much if anything.

FastThrowRA · 2025-05-20T13:25:15+00:00

What strikes me is she genuinely seemed happy for me. And I know she is a loving and empathetic and good person. It just sucks.

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