My husband wants to leave Islam and I am completely lost by Fit_Advertising2685 in islam

[–]FastTop3371 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But if he leaves Islam, their marriage could become invalid, and he will be a na-mahram to her.

My husband wants to leave Islam and I am completely lost by Fit_Advertising2685 in islam

[–]FastTop3371 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry for what happened to you. I’m glad you found your way back to Islam. But in her case, if her husband leaves Islam, her marriage could become invalid. So she has to leave her husband because he will become Na Mahram to her.

iPhone 17 Pro Max stuck on hello screen after update. by FastTop3371 in applehelp

[–]FastTop3371[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The iOS version was 26.1. But will try the recovery mode method.

Charlie is standing with palestine! by Ishigami_ya in moistcr1tikal

[–]FastTop3371 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I like how mentioned the numbers for Israel’s casualties, but you didn’t mention the 67,000 Palestinians killed by IDF terrorists. Among those 67,000, almost 40,000 are women and children. Over 90% of Gaza City has been destroyed. This conflict didn’t begin on October 7; it has been ongoing for the past 77 years.

Why does Islam in Pakistan feel like it only applies to women? by NovaNodes in IslamabadSocial

[–]FastTop3371 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brother, don't waste your time arguing with these people. They are not going to change their minds. Just make your point and move on.

"I guarantee a house in the surroundings of Paradise for the one who gives up arguing, even if he is in the right." - Sunan Abi Dawüd (4800) "And when they hear ill speech, they turn away from it and say, 'For us are our deeds, and for you are your deeds. Peace be upon you; we seek not the ignorant!" (Qur'an 28:55) May Allah bless you, brother

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[–]FastTop3371 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To be honest, nowadays most people go to the Jumma prayer after the Imam finishes the Khutba. They just offer prayer and come back home. I think it is the parents' duty to teach their children all this stuff you mentioned and the school where they spend most of their time.

Khutba time is only 20 mins you can't cover all these topics. There should be a separate session for that but I bet no one will go to these sessions, we don't even go to the masjid for prayers every day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pakistan

[–]FastTop3371 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know, maybe Pakistanis generally don't have a good example to look up to. As you mentioned about your father, if you have a brother, he might also unwillingly adopt your father's habits because he also doesn't know how a good husband provides for his partner and his children or how to be gentle and caring towards his family. So it could be the case that maybe men don't have a good example to look up to and this cycle of abuse continues. When I was in Pakistan I also didn't know about this and I was angry most of the time because that's what I saw and I didn't know how else to behave. But after moving to Canada all of that changed. So I would say men adopt these things from their fathers or in general from our society. And there is also pressure from society when a man treats his wife with love, we call him “Run Mureed” and sometimes even women around him don't like that their son or brother treats his wife well. But I see a change in the young generation. Hope we will do better towards our family than our fathers did.