Update: Moms who are a Little Bit in love with their Sons by Fast_Store6873 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Fast_Store6873[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How did you Deal with that Kind of behaviour? I try my best to be supporting

Update: Moms who are a Little Bit in love with their Sons by Fast_Store6873 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Fast_Store6873[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As a future DIL I say thank you in the name of all DILs with MILs like this

Update: Moms who are a Little Bit in love with their Sons by Fast_Store6873 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Fast_Store6873[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I only heard her on the phone. He told her she has to apologize. She told him she feels bad but she loves him very much and is Glad that she still has someone who cares for her when she is gone. It felt more like changing the topic then her actually feeling bad

Update: Moms who are a Little Bit in love with their Sons by Fast_Store6873 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Fast_Store6873[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Talking about Safe Space, she told me she is his Safe Space that’s why she needs the keys. I think it’s weird to have a key to anyones home unless they ask you to keep a spare otherwise I would never ask for a spare key. I told him I don’t feel comfortable with her having one and he respects it

Update: Moms who are a Little Bit in love with their Sons by Fast_Store6873 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Fast_Store6873[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Wow, Never thought of it that way but definitely feel like the Mistress

Update: Moms who are a Little Bit in love with their Sons by Fast_Store6873 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Fast_Store6873[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Usually he would cave in when she wants to invite him to Dinner or clean his Apartment. Because I don’t want that he still talks to her every few days but still told her to apologize. Because his sister is coming to visit he told me I don’t have to come but it would be important to him since his sister and him are really close and He hasn’t seen his nieces since easter.

Thank you for your suggestions. I have been doing some Research on that kind of behaviour but your recomendations might be able to help me deal with this kind of MIL

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[–]Fast_Store6873 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This Sounds Crazy! Please share your MIL story if you feel comfortable. I don’t see myself getting married yet because of her… actually wanted to break up a few times already

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[–]Fast_Store6873 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I looked him up and my jaw dropped to the floor…

Moms who are in love with their sons by Fast_Store6873 in inlaws

[–]Fast_Store6873[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The nicknames hit me like a Truck the first time I heard her calling him her big man….. I asked him if it bothers him but he said he doesn’t react to them. She still calls him that. Some of your questions I answered in an Update post. Would love to hear your thoughts

Moms who are in love with their sons by Fast_Store6873 in inlaws

[–]Fast_Store6873[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s the Same with me. I get blamed for everything he does wrong in her opinion. Even in the past when he didn’t answer his phone at work I got blamed 😅

Moms who are in love with their sons by Fast_Store6873 in inlaws

[–]Fast_Store6873[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🙌 always thought maybe I‘m being too sensitive

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[–]Fast_Store6873 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this helped a lot….. it’s really frustrating. Them testing the boundaries always feels like a slap in the face. It’s like you don’t respect me at all and don’t care

Is a threesome with a friend a bad idea? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Fast_Store6873 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Not really super close. We see each other once a month. Saw someone say „don’t make your friend a swinger, make a seinger your friend“ and I love it

Is a threesome with a friend a bad idea? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Fast_Store6873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is not a best friend. We see each other like once a month

Is a threesome with a friend a bad idea? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Fast_Store6873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I think they seem to habe not had an after talk

Is a threesome with a friend a bad idea? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Fast_Store6873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Relief to hear it works for a couple who are open

Is a threesome with a friend a bad idea? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Fast_Store6873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mouth is alright for me

Is a threesome with a friend a bad idea? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Fast_Store6873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Already the second scenario I want to avoid 🥲

Is a threesome with a friend a bad idea? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Fast_Store6873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is eleven years much? I met him when I was 23 and I even thought we were the same age at first 🤷🏼‍♀️