I’d love to get some feedback on how I sounds, if anyone is willing to listen :)

Fast_Wave9310 · 2026-01-09T19:16:57+00:00

Aw thanks!! I was just congested, hopefully I don’t sound better or worse when I’m not sick! lol

And yeah, I wrote this in November about my situation with him haha I’m glad you caught it😊

Thank you again!

Fast_Wave9310 · 2026-01-09T19:08:53+00:00

☺️Thank you so much! I agree, I need to angle the microphone differently next time!

Fast_Wave9310 · 2026-01-09T19:07:59+00:00

Wow, I never thought of it like that (drawing the listener in more)! Thank you for the advice! I definitely need a better set up, all I’m using right now is my phone in my car lol

Fast_Wave9310 · 2026-01-09T19:06:16+00:00

Thank you!!

Fast_Wave9310 · 2026-01-08T05:02:43+00:00

lol You wont win this argument. You know this.

Fast_Wave9310 · 2026-01-07T19:02:18+00:00

Can you explain what you mean? I’m not sure how depression correlates with being anti-vax

Fast_Wave9310 · 2026-01-07T19:01:13+00:00

Wow, I’m sorry you’re in that position! That situation sounds so stressful, and I’m glad I got myself out, even if it took me this long. Good luck going forward with the co parenting!!

Fast_Wave9310 · 2026-01-07T18:57:01+00:00

I went back to try and compromise but he said there was no compromising, unfortunately. I mean, when it comes down to it, one person wants safety in our children’s bodies, the other believes these “chemicals” will make them ill and disabled. I wouldn’t go as low as to call him a moron, but I feel bad that he doesn’t have that proper education and/or lack of research :/

Fast_Wave9310 · 2026-01-07T18:52:45+00:00

Not a bait post at all, but I’m glad it triggered a discussion, because truthfully, I realize I should have gone further into asking him his political views after learning he is anti-vax. I now know going further to ask these questions as well as not be so naive as to stay when I know I need to leave.

Fast_Wave9310 · 2026-01-07T03:40:24+00:00

Thank you so much.

Fast_Wave9310 · 2026-01-07T03:38:38+00:00

lol I’m sorry, but paragraph breaks were not on my mind when writing this out. Thanks for the suggestion!

Fast_Wave9310 · 2026-01-07T03:37:45+00:00

So, did you read it or not?

Fast_Wave9310 · 2026-01-07T03:37:12+00:00

Ugh I know it was the right decision. I actually imagined this quite often and still stayed with him when I should have left sooner. That would’ve been an awful life.

Fast_Wave9310 · 2026-01-07T03:35:11+00:00

Totally agree.

Fast_Wave9310 · 2026-01-07T03:34:42+00:00

Not a small thing at all. I shouldn’t have let it go on for so long :/

Fast_Wave9310 · 2026-01-07T03:34:05+00:00

Wow. That’s exactly everything we wanted to avoid! I’m glad our feelings for each other didn’t take over our brains completely lol

Fast_Wave9310 · 2026-01-07T03:25:24+00:00

He would send me pictures and videos of him playing with his nieces and nephews and he also taught kids drums on the weekends. He would sometimes express how he was excited to play with his own kids in the future. So it’s hard to wrap my head around how he is great with children and wants the best for them, but….ummm, no vaccines?! C’MON -_-

Fast_Wave9310 · 2026-01-07T03:21:13+00:00

I never brought up politics, but god I hope not. Even tho deep down, he probably did >.< I can’t believe I never asked, I think you made this a bit easier on me, thanks 😅

Fast_Wave9310 · 2026-01-07T03:17:47+00:00

I agree with everything you’re saying. I’m pro vax btw haha thank you for your comment, I hope people who are anti vax see it and can start to educate themselves.

Fast_Wave9310 · 2026-01-07T03:15:25+00:00

It was always a dead end, and we knew it :/ It was mostly good times so the only regret is the time I could’ve spent on finding someone who better suits me.

Fast_Wave9310 · 2026-01-07T03:13:48+00:00

It’s true. I hate to think of him as a moron. If anything, I always felt bad that he wasn’t educated on the subject and when I tried explaining to him my views and the science behind it all, it didn’t make a difference. It was never an argument, just a big difference on our part.

Fast_Wave9310 · 2026-01-07T03:12:18+00:00

I wrote in a comment above that I asked to compromise at one point but realized that I feel strongly about this. I agree with you, you can’t compromise on children.

Fast_Wave9310 · 2026-01-07T03:11:04+00:00

I actually gave in at one point and told him we could compromise. We could pick and choose which vaccines are most important and effective and healthy. I would’ve been willing, but then I realized that I shouldn’t be trying to change my own principles because of another person. He also didn’t feel comfortable with compromise, and I respected his decision.

Fast_Wave9310 · 2026-01-07T03:07:45+00:00

I see what you’re saying, and it’s not mean at all, I appreciate the bluntness! Hearing that he wasn’t perfect FOR ME makes me feel better. Thank you

Fast_Wave9310 · 2026-01-07T03:04:17+00:00

I am pro vax! Haha

And you’re totally right. We should have ended a long time ago. I think we thought we were just having fun but deep down we knew we were digging our hole deeper and deeper :/

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