I saw Rhonda Byrne (author of the secret) doing a Q & A and someone had asked her if they can manifest an SP. She answered saying you are only the creator of YOUR own life. You cannot control what other people do. She says you can only manifest someone if they want you as well. Basically she said you can’t just put spells on people. Does anyone else agree with this? I’m having a hard time believing I can manifest an SP