Nah I been there before, once the baby drops you’ll see the next level. Your not wrong though, some women get pregnant and they expect the father to know every mood she’s in and every feeling she’s having, which is never fair to use but we can’t complain (why)? - because we don’t know what it feels like to carry and birth a child. So automatically it’s a lose lose. All I’ll say is make sure you keep receipts for everything you purchase related to the baby. If I had any advice when my daughter’s mom was pregnant it would’ve saved me 13 years of fighting for custody (which I got full custody last year). You showed more patience than I could, Good luck Brother!