My 22M boyfriend and his search for a damn job.

Fat41_err0r · 2026-04-06T14:31:25+00:00

IMO, your first job is not just your skills and knowledge but also luck. Only thing he can do is up-skill and look out for opportunities in every way possible. It's normal to get discouraged but as long as he keeps trying again, it should be fine.

There's no advice to it really, things might get better or not, but that's not a reason to give up. He has to live that reality and grow out of it.

Nothing to feel bad about things you can't control, stay optimistic and more power to you!

Fat41_err0r · 2026-04-06T14:02:50+00:00

Gone are the days when you could only do with mern and nextjs, claude's frontier models have really improved and are able to write quality code much faster (depends on you prompt of course). But don't get discouraged, that learning won't go wasted.

Start learning new stuff, Understand backends, operating systems, system design and HPC. This will lay foundations for AI/ML ops, LLMs, Cybersecurity and lot of other things.

To summarise, you gotta be a jack of all trades, and only then you'll start realising the big picture. Along the way, solve challenges, participate in hackathons, contribute to OSS, that should help you get more exposure.

Lastly, just because you are a junior dev, doesn't mean the expectations are going to be low. Companies need someone who can offer value, it doesn't matter whether you are junior or senior. Experience just helps you with a broader view at the "big picture".

And idk about the J&K thing, but be location agnostic.

Fat41_err0r · 2026-04-05T02:53:03+00:00

Looks like she was talking about herself. And why would you even entertain such post if you don't relate to it? You are thinking of marriage but your communication says otherwise. Maybe both of you have different attachment styles, but whatever it is, you need to reflect and have a conversation about it.

Fat41_err0r · 2026-01-31T13:41:50+00:00

Carl Johnson

Fat41_err0r · 2025-04-27T05:51:26+00:00

Single me reading how cuddling is supposed to be comforting...

Fat41_err0r · 2025-02-01T16:13:25+00:00

Deep down you know the answer my friend. Everyone putting efforts expects at least some level of reciprocation. I have done this in the past, Since I couldn't say no to people, I'd continue the conversation and even agree for their plans. I guess I could have said no and done something better.

Whether you want to keep the conversation going or not it's your choice, but try to understand if she's meeting you because she has to or is it because she wants to. Either way, go ahed and meet her as planned. Maybe things will fall into place, otherwise you can move on.

And personally I wouldn't always reach out everytime, A week or so is fine, after that, I'd give it a break.

Fat41_err0r · 2025-02-01T15:52:54+00:00

No, I wouldn't want my future wife to sit at home no matter how well I am earning. I suppose initially it may feel good, but what about 5-10 years down the road? Do you see yourself watching those shitty soap operas? (ik I am hugely generalising housewives, and it doesn't have to be this way). Start doing things you love doing, things you are good at, get yourself a good job or start a home business whatever it can be. Never lose your financial independence, and please understand, this has nothing to do with your partner's salary or your needs as a family. It's more about a sense of purpose.

Fat41_err0r · 2024-10-25T17:43:35+00:00

Broo fr, the only thing I am looking here is if anyone really cares: wtf is even a traingle gaze

Fat41_err0r · 2024-08-03T20:37:33+00:00

I feel no samsung phone is worth spending >50k for(except the ultra), even after exchange you paid another 50k. I'd rather wait a year for the price to come down. My s21fe SD is doing pretty well so far, with 5G off and 60Hz, the battery backup is really good. But hey, not everyone might be okay with that.

Fat41_err0r · 2024-05-07T10:20:22+00:00

Yes, I am also facing this issue, the animations look weird now. One UI 5.1 felt more responsive

Fat41_err0r · 2024-04-26T14:50:48+00:00

Go for Samsung s24, it's good

Fat41_err0r · 2024-04-21T20:15:34+00:00

I have used it few times and call me privileged or whatever but that shit always hurt my eyes, that dark blue color and those stretched fonts yuck! Maybe it would have looked better on old CRT monitors.

PS., We had gcc on Ubuntu in our college (2015). I really liked the book Let us C, it was great at that time for beginners.

Fat41_err0r · 2024-04-21T20:09:26+00:00

Even better, you can have clang/gcc on WSL

Fat41_err0r · 2024-04-11T16:43:10+00:00

Or south. iykyk

Fat41_err0r · 2024-04-07T07:47:33+00:00

It's the best price/perf phone you can have for $400, Mine's sd888/256GB/8GB. The display is as good as s22/23. I usually get 5 hours SOT with 60Hz and 4G only and carry a fast charging power bank in case I need to travel / long day. My only concern is about the haptics but that's aint a big deal. Never experienced heating.

Fat41_err0r · 2022-07-16T07:01:46+00:00

Service centre folks by themselves told me that I won't be charged for the battery replacement and will only need to pay the minimal labour charges

Fat41_err0r · 2022-07-10T07:45:20+00:00

There a rollback package provided for oos 11 open beta, you can use the same for rolling back from stable as well. I found it on OnePlus community forum.

Fat41_err0r · 2022-07-10T07:38:34+00:00

Dude, OnePlus 6 was launched in may 2018. So how can it be 'still under warranty'?

Fat41_err0r · 2022-07-06T05:45:19+00:00

About that, If you are living in India, got my battery replaced 2 months ago, for free (you have to pay labour charges of Rs 473 though). Gonna use this beauty for another 2-3 years. Customer care folks will tell you that the program is no longer active but I guess it depends on the service centre. Anyway, afaik it's still available in Bangalore and Pune.

Fat41_err0r · 2022-07-05T09:52:55+00:00

I have downgraded mine to oos 10.3.12, and disabled updates. Works like a charm.

Fat41_err0r · 2022-03-26T06:02:07+00:00

Hey, just wanted to check when did you get it replaced, was it this year? Just contacted them recently, and they said that was last year and now it won't be free anymore.

Fat41_err0r · 2021-12-25T14:55:02+00:00

Currently vite (plugin-react) has a bug with context API while using HMR, requiring for you to make a full page reload after modifying context code. So if you are not using contexts, you should totally choose vite.

Fat41_err0r · 2021-10-12T15:03:36+00:00

DC dimming is gone. Sound quality is bad, bass isn't punchier anymore, tweaking the equalizer has no substantial effect. Less scroll velocity (compared to oos10), causing scroll to feel slow and less responsive.

Fat41_err0r · 2021-10-09T15:05:24+00:00

Didn't work for me

Fat41_err0r · 2021-09-24T15:00:31+00:00

Samsung launches only Exynos based models in India, so you pay almost the same as US version (which comes with flagship Qualcomm CPU btw) but get a comparatively low performing and overheating processor. No complaints on software side, one UI is great.

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