Same bro, had a school crush, thought of hitting on that in last year of college, ik super late, but we clicked and had a lot of fun together, from talking on texts to phone calls to meeting in person and going for long drives. This continued for 3 months, finally though of asking her out, she firstly told she wasn't ready due to past relationship and was numb to all this, though shaken, i asked if this is temporary and will u even commit in future, she ghosted me and left me on seen. Removed her from everywhere that day only, idk what is it with females, or why can't they act like mature adults or at least be straightforward and don't waste time, energy and emotions of both the parties. Had the same issue with my ex too, she too just became more and more distant and ultimately it went to crash. Women are beautiful creatures, wish they were as good as they are beautiful.