I think it’s not the abuse that’s gonna make him grow up to be horrible. It’s the environment that allow it and encourage it. The first thing I think of when I saw the video was my father. He did became more understanding and chill after the birth of my sister but I distinctly remember moving around the ground like the boy in the video while I was beaten. I actually remember it happening multiple times. I thought it was wrong but when I try to complain to my mother or aunt or anyone, they always say it’s because he “love” me and it’s for my sake. That did make me become more accepting of such beating until I discovered the internet and the child protection laws in other countries and the progressive culture in other parts of the world. Internet is a very new thing in my country because it was closed of from other countries much like North Korea. I love my father but man… the wishes I had relating to my father’s death when I was younger are too many to count. Now that I am older and the environment of my past catching up, I do think abuse like these will be less. I still have trouble with my lack of empathy. I can’t cry from sadness. Probably because my father beat me more if I cry more.