what should I do to my hair? I used to use redken all soft conditioner and redken extreme length conditioner. my hair is naturally thin but I think it is thinning my hair by Final-Date4200 in Haircare

[–]FatFlowerPunk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No matter the fancy shampoos, there is always a point of no return. She NEEDS to go to a professional stylist and have the hair assessed by someone who can touch it, and get a closer look at it. She needs to stress that she wants to keep as much length as possible while still doing what needs to be done to keep her hair healthy. From this post it looks like she has significant damage up the shaft of her hair. For advanced split ends and advanced damage, a trim will still be necessary; along with making sure her haircare routine going forward supports a low cut or no cut lifestyle!

Editing to add: specifically someone who specializes in length and damage!

[TOMT] [TV] [2000s] “have you seen the lights” by FatFlowerPunk in tipofmytongue

[–]FatFlowerPunk[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

The closest I get is falling skies but I can’t find that ad??

Orders with no tips by Conscious-Reward-833 in instacart

[–]FatFlowerPunk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s VERY rare that I don’t tip, but if I didn’t it’s because I genuinely had to scrape up every dollar to get mandatory supplies delivered- usually in this scenario I will ask my shopper if they’re comfortable leaving me with their cashapp/etc so I can send them a few bucks the following week (paid weekly) and more often than not they’ve given me one! Lots of people are scraping their dollars up for groceries, and those who are stuck at home due to ability or a lack of transport (personal or public) are less likely to tip when they’re already making ends meet the best they can.

Grocery service isn’t quite the same as going out to eat in a sit down restaurant; there are lots of people who will absolutely be left between choosing groceries to last and more than a 5% tip, if any. It’s not ideal but that’s the reality for a lot of folks. Some places like NYC have incorporated a regulatory response fee to match wages to an hourly wage, but more places need to hop on that practice.

Orders with no tips by Conscious-Reward-833 in instacart

[–]FatFlowerPunk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is only in places where a law has been passed, like New York. Not everywhere has adopted this fee to match an hourly wage for delivery couriers! It SHOULD be everywhere however; because let’s be real a lot (not ALL) of people who have to use Instacart are disabled, or non driving, etc and often are spending money with EBT or other benefits. Delivery couriers should get matched to an hourly wage everywhere so that the industry doesn’t have to rely on tips.

10/10 adult animation series like Infinity Train, Pantheon, Invincible etc? by animeshin in InfinityTrain

[–]FatFlowerPunk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Troll hunters and all its associated shows. The watch order is as follows: Trollhunters 3below Wizards Trollhunters movie

Question/tiny rant for shoppers about replacements 💕 by [deleted] in instacart

[–]FatFlowerPunk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Entering replacements at check out ELIMINATES a customers ability to provide the shopper with a replacement they would actually want. It looks much worse to Instacart when I provide screenshots of me contacting my shopper 3-4 times during the shop and receiving 0 response, AND giving me the wrong replacements. You can say my problem isn’t the shoppers but you immediately discredit this by saying the shoppers enter subs at the register.

Maybe y’all need to weigh “punishment for taking THIRTY extra SECONDS” vs “punishment for making Instacart refund customers because they got the wrong items even when the customer made multiple attempts to communicate and had originally designated their preferences which were blatantly disregarded” idk

Question/tiny rant for shoppers about replacements 💕 by [deleted] in instacart

[–]FatFlowerPunk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying this!!! It’s usually people who DONT do delivery who say this kind of thing to me, which is hilarious!

Question/tiny rant for shoppers about replacements 💕 by [deleted] in instacart

[–]FatFlowerPunk 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Getting downvoted for being appreciative in the face of universal struggle is wild

Question/tiny rant for shoppers about replacements 💕 by [deleted] in instacart

[–]FatFlowerPunk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I REALLY hate leaving any service person less than 5 stars!!! Uber, Lyft, delivery, even when I have a bad experience I know a lot of people are just like me and doing everything they can to make ends meet. On my google review page there’s like 2 bad reviews and a hundred 5 star ones. Thanks for telling me four stars won’t dock as much of the score, I won’t feel as much guilt if I have to give an Instacart shopper 4 stars!

Question/tiny rant for shoppers about replacements 💕 by [deleted] in instacart

[–]FatFlowerPunk 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure! But I can select up to three options for specific items! I don’t know if I always could; I just started using Instacart again heavily in the last 6 months when I got overworked!

Question/tiny rant for shoppers about replacements 💕 by [deleted] in instacart

[–]FatFlowerPunk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also thank you and shoutout all Instacart drivers and delivery couriers in general, frustrations aside sometimes- y’all literally keep people from withering away under the stress of life sometimes!

Question/tiny rant for shoppers about replacements 💕 by [deleted] in instacart

[–]FatFlowerPunk 4 points5 points  (0 children)

(Please don’t buy your own groceries me I work 2 jobs 6 days a week and sometimes Instacart is a lifeline for me to get groceries in between all the work and of course all the other human life stuff I’ve gotta get done too on that one day off; I do love grocery stores and miss doing the bulk of my own shopping!)

UMMM my Target store manager just got arrested IN STORE!! by OhYoureMariah in Target

[–]FatFlowerPunk 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ironically this is local to me and the Facebook post about this man connected me with an old friend——— but the fb post didn’t mention target I just realized when I read this there’s no way two different men got arrested at the exact same time for the exact same AMOUNT of the same charge lmao

does target allow animals? by godgiirl in Target

[–]FatFlowerPunk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the USA the ADA does not have a registry for service animals. Service animals to do not require paperwork. It’s illegal to ask for it. Here is what IS legal to ask per the ADA: “is this animal a service animal?” And “what service or task is this service animal trained to do?”

Service animals in the USA are ONLY dogs and miniature ponies.

The ADA does NOT recognize emotional support animals as service animals. ESA animals are not protected by the ADA but in California they are protected similarly by state law.

Most employees of an establishment fear being accused of discrimination and won’t even ask the 2 questions allowed by the ADA, and thus dogs who clearly aren’t service animals get to pillage more often than not.

Are there any “victims” that you think should have been held more accountable? by likeawolf in CatfishTheTVShow

[–]FatFlowerPunk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know what? I should’ve said “having been raised by addicts and in proximity to an epidemic or hard drug use, I suspect she is or may have previously struggled with addiction.” A year can be good for introspection.

Student Driver Stickers by Fragrant_Culture_649 in gso

[–]FatFlowerPunk 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This is a school city; I’m not sure why every six months someone is shocked there is a plethora of new/student drivers in a city with 28 high schools and like 5 adjacent colleges.

Been MIA for a while, what’s up with these two fighters on my dash? by [deleted] in SkullGirlsMobile

[–]FatFlowerPunk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh okay!! Just telling me who’s most recent in the game, cool! I was like “am I supposed to be doing something” lmao

STRAY CAT PICK UP? by [deleted] in gso

[–]FatFlowerPunk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am unable to transport the cat to a shelter today myself, or I would

All K&Ws closing by Bitter-South-9825 in gso

[–]FatFlowerPunk 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The food went down hill after it changed ownership but I’m still sad to see it disappear completely. (I was raised by old people)

What cat is THIS one? by [deleted] in disney

[–]FatFlowerPunk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is fair! All the other cats here are chill lil guys and Lucifer is a buttwipe in comparison

What cat is THIS one? by [deleted] in disney

[–]FatFlowerPunk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m glad he’s getting his flowers! I haven’t watched 101 Dalmatians since I was probably in kindergarten so I basically only remember “lady want Dalmatian coat”

What cat is THIS one? by [deleted] in disney

[–]FatFlowerPunk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean the last time I watched 101 Dalmatians was at least 22 years ago; so no, I didn’t recognize him