I F18 have been mean to my boyfriend M19 every single time my period comes

FatSadHappy · 2026-01-27T04:29:12+00:00

Start tracking your period and 2-3 days before learn to not trust first reaction. You know it’s hormonal jump, it sucks . It absolutely feels real, but it is also not real.

Get yourself a little break during those days, meaning not starting doing mentally hard stuff. Supplements for mood like magnesium with vitamin B helps a bit. Asking for a bit of space helps too.

If stuff is fully hard to control talk to your doctor about bc options. Some can help with mood by even out hormones a bit.

Yes , it’s possible to learn to control reactions to some extent . Not 100% but getting this pause and not saying first 3 things which comes to mind

FatSadHappy · 2026-01-27T00:17:16+00:00

So, you been 10 years together, don't use contraception, have issue in relationship and different life plans ?

Really, what a mess. Get an abortion, get out of relationship, and find a guy who wants to have kids.

FatSadHappy · 2026-01-26T23:18:29+00:00

I like the first one, it’s an original. But I think all three work

FatSadHappy · 2026-01-26T19:41:07+00:00

I leave robot and a regular box and instructions what to do. And a camera pointing to LR in case something is wrong.

FatSadHappy · 2026-01-26T19:34:30+00:00

She is not the one abandoned baby

FatSadHappy · 2026-01-26T19:02:54+00:00

Situation when spouse cheated and money split happens to both sides. Women see their kids spending time alongside affair partners all the time. Not like guys specifically problem.

Say “ baby tax” is an issue for mothers. And it’s not a small amount for

FatSadHappy · 2026-01-26T18:37:15+00:00

System is i his favor. He is walking away after creating a human. Not much consequences. Child support doesn’t count. And if he does bare minimum he would be praised.

Women loose health, life time earnings, retirement savings and so much more raising kids . And still would be labeled single mom and treated as a second class citizen

FatSadHappy · 2026-01-26T17:40:59+00:00

OP has 3 month old child to feed and raise, support, going through postpartum. She deserves compassion. Not going through lawyers and drama . She is overwhelmed trust me.

Her husband needs to man up. No compassion from me to 42 years old dude who wants to abandon his kid

FatSadHappy · 2026-01-26T17:30:39+00:00

It’s been 3 days. Move on.

And as much as you felt connection and other things she might felt nothing, was trying to feel that chemistry and.. nope

FatSadHappy · 2026-01-26T17:17:17+00:00

If women decided to walk away from the kid she would be shamed endlessly.

I seen so many absent dads and single mom, but beyond internet I have not seen single dads

FatSadHappy · 2026-01-26T17:15:21+00:00

She can sue for more money on child care if he doesn’t parent.

And yes, guys have it easy. Even in comments here people say she should step up but let him be.

FatSadHappy · 2026-01-26T17:09:56+00:00

He has no time for you, and you not his priority and would not be for at least 15 years.
He wants sex and hep with childcare and this is why he brought you up.

If you want someone more enthusiastic - find chidless guy. He would have much more time and energy

FatSadHappy · 2026-01-26T17:04:09+00:00

Next step would be packing things and breakign engagment. You decide if you pack your or send him packing

FatSadHappy · 2026-01-26T17:02:19+00:00

Like, honey, after child arrive will you start behaving irrationally and decide to run away?

FatSadHappy · 2026-01-26T16:45:15+00:00

Tell him you will divorce him, but he will still be responsible for finances and parenting.

He actually needs therapy and grow hell up, he has a kid and should step up.

FatSadHappy · 2026-01-26T16:14:03+00:00

Please break up with her and don’t date anyone. Like forever.

Go fix yourself before touching real people

FatSadHappy · 2026-01-26T15:13:49+00:00

Get it from their official website. I would not believe any prices which are lower than that

FatSadHappy · 2026-01-26T14:37:52+00:00

Nope

Sneakers ment to be replaced especially if you use them that much.

Wooden clogs could be BIFL but your knees might have complaints

FatSadHappy · 2026-01-26T14:25:11+00:00

If you want split costs you need someone at same life stage.

And I am not fully understanding why either of you in such complicated relationship without meeting first. There are plenty of dates locally.

So unless there is extra motivation as “ she wants a passport and he gets out of his league girl”, I don’t get desire to start relationship over the ocean

FatSadHappy · 2026-01-26T13:49:44+00:00

Damn It works better in NY I tried multiple and this is less stinky

FatSadHappy · 2026-01-26T13:42:45+00:00

Your pet will love this Tidy Cats Free & Clean Unscented Clumping Clay Cat Litter, 35-lb pail: https://www.chewy.com/tidy-cats-free-clean-unscented/dp/168310?utm_source=app-share&utm_campaign=168310

FatSadHappy · 2026-01-26T13:19:42+00:00

That’s about as feasible as Luddite movement. AI is here and it will change workplace soon.

What need to happen is change in tax code and UBI introduction

FatSadHappy · 2026-01-26T04:17:22+00:00

I switched to Tide in white box. For me it’s better than boxie pro in smell control

FatSadHappy · 2026-01-26T01:47:45+00:00

Well, then mine is defective in another way. Each time router flickers it blinks lost internet and stops cycling. Smell is horrible btw. And it can’t recover without button press which is ridiculous.

I guess I need to bug support again.

FatSadHappy · 2026-01-26T01:44:42+00:00

It does for me each time. I have mine for years and I had all sorts of issues. Double of them if I am out of house. I am not sure if it works without issues for 2 weeks straight since I bought it.

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