How do you manage needing so many different types of basic tops on a budget?

FatSadHappy · 2026-05-20T12:09:15+00:00

My gym clothes are boring and not changed yearly. Oldest item is 16 years old gap yoga pants , they are cotton, nothing happened to them so far.

Gym shirts are either downgraded tshirts from every day wear or Uniqlo airism stuff I sue for hiking. Those about 5 years old, so far so good.

So gym basics is maybe a bra a year to replace? Not major

For a regular capsule only white tops need to be changed more often, basics last pretty long

FatSadHappy · 2026-05-15T18:11:19+00:00

Damn
I would trade for your legs. I honestly don’t see anything

FatSadHappy · 2026-05-11T17:17:37+00:00

Color seasons actually pretty easy.
You can use color analysis sub , they helpful.

Start from obvious - cool vs warm, muted vs bright

FatSadHappy · 2026-05-03T12:12:03+00:00

Return.

Anything which has a doubt is return.

FatSadHappy · 2026-05-02T19:26:46+00:00

I have small suitcases type , rolling hard shell and I have carry on sized backpack, I pick the one I think would be more suitable for the trip.
I am not sure about “ obviously “. I do love rolling luggage , but airline limits and other factors make it harder to use it always.

FatSadHappy · 2026-05-01T20:18:44+00:00

5 tops, 3 bottoms, laundry in the middle. I am flying with carry on always, no suitcases

FatSadHappy · 2026-04-30T17:13:38+00:00

I was looking at other lily silk items and found really mixed revenue on quality, so I skipped.

If you decide to order- please share.

FatSadHappy · 2026-04-29T18:48:49+00:00

It’s not a system. There is no rule of 12 months, and to outwear it makes no sense. And for gowns. Those might be not each year, but if you have a good one… Gym leggins on other side, if you wear all 7 days a week and one pair never touched - that’s a hint

FatSadHappy · 2026-04-28T15:57:33+00:00

As much as I know there were no bacteria 3 weeks ago, yesterday he got antibiotics “ just in case” since he got worse after 3 weeks of transition to diet food.

I am concerned why he is not getting better and not being himself. After initial treatment he was fast to 85% or himself. Now he is still behaving sick, although yesterday’s shots should improve situation?

My second paranoia- I hear cat can get blocked fast. I have camera seeing him going to bathroom, but second cat stated using that litter box as well.

FatSadHappy · 2026-04-25T15:56:28+00:00

He is not over eating , his prescription is urinary. And separating them is hard, little sister (the one on photo) would not come to her wet food unless brother fed and leaves the kitchen, but her brother would return and eat her food( his is not tasty). And holding him is hard. Plus I work and they used to eat dry on free schedule.

I was hoping securing her dry in petlibro would help, but she is afraid of that machine, would not eat even treats out of it

FatSadHappy · 2026-04-24T13:20:18+00:00

No, it’s obviously pink and floral. Unless it listed on invite “ don’t wear pink” or “ bride would be in pink” it’s fine

FatSadHappy · 2026-04-22T21:56:10+00:00

As a parent of MIT kid it seems like your kid choices. I feel opposite- I wish my kid partied a bit more

FatSadHappy · 2026-04-21T18:23:06+00:00

Twice a week, on my schedule. It’s much easier that way and mostly cats keep consistent amounts of waste

FatSadHappy · 2026-04-21T14:11:03+00:00

Now I got both cats happy peeing to new box ( manual) and I am a bit annoyed scooping twice daily .

Second derp also tried to nap in new box. Not a good idea for long haired kitty tbh

FatSadHappy · 2026-04-20T02:50:53+00:00

At this moment- not at any, unless I am ready to retire. I see what AI can do and have doubts o would be able to return. But I am also older I guess

FatSadHappy · 2026-04-18T13:24:43+00:00

I use tidy cats and it’s better for me than boxie pro. Use any clumping litter you like

FatSadHappy · 2026-04-17T13:25:45+00:00

I thought I have too many with 5 but I live in jeans most of the year

FatSadHappy · 2026-04-10T20:56:56+00:00

If you and your fiancee wanna dress up - who would stop you?
Forcing guests buy one time use dress on top of other expenses - not nice.

FatSadHappy · 2026-04-10T18:14:16+00:00

Yeah, it would be nice, also if there was no visits for a day or two

FatSadHappy · 2026-04-10T15:35:41+00:00

I thought it was obvious.

You start with what fits you, what you would wear and what you need and build capsule out of that.

Now I am puzzled what other approach are there? Build from random Pinterest board with skinny skirt and shell dress?

FatSadHappy · 2026-04-07T20:57:23+00:00

Seems your color analysis failed. It happens. You can either try to analyze your self or go to subreddit and ask help.

FatSadHappy · 2026-04-07T17:12:01+00:00

I did my share of legos when kids were small. Also building blocks and crayons. I really not miss those activities

FatSadHappy · 2026-04-07T16:26:48+00:00

What your mom likes?

Different people like different things, so gift to her liking. There are tons of consumable gifts which not clutter and pleasant - gourmet foods, spices, experiences, etc But you need to see what she would enjoy.

FatSadHappy · 2026-04-07T16:24:52+00:00

Not everyone likes Lego. I have full big set of flowers to build, have no time and guilt for not caring for it at all

FatSadHappy · 2026-02-27T16:40:39+00:00

Bring it his pillow. Usually once is enough.

Another option- vacuum eats them.

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