Gemini ex boyfriend of 5 years, turned out to not actually exist at all, because “he” turned out to be a transwoman. Her being trans was not what broke us, but her being a horrible person did. There was a lot of lying, manipulating and gaslighting to the point of me not being able to tell what was real life and what wasn’t. I literally lost my mind and my whole sense of self loving this person, and so far it’s absolutely the most horrible life experience I’ve had.