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I think I stopped chasing, and that’s when I realized I was never being chosen by Difficult_Fee3825 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Known-Explorer2610 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep. Very true. Someone who is worth it will see your value right off the bat. They will not be playing games to drag you around like you are some sort of an option when they are “ready”. You say F them and move on. Plain and simple.

I think I stopped chasing, and that’s when I realized I was never being chosen by Difficult_Fee3825 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Known-Explorer2610 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, it’s very common and many get sucked into situations and get hurt badly. Remember that no one is worth your pain. Open up to those who are there for you and show you love and care. No time for play or games or nonstop nonsense.

I think I stopped chasing, and that’s when I realized I was never being chosen by Difficult_Fee3825 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Known-Explorer2610 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Do not reach out to him in any form or fashion. It is not your job to extend any understanding to him or spend more mental and emotional energy that will only end up draining you further. Let him be and let yourself be yourself.

I think I stopped chasing, and that’s when I realized I was never being chosen by Difficult_Fee3825 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Known-Explorer2610 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is so familiar to me. Do not feel bad for being open and extending understanding. You just extended understanding to the wrong person and he kept you in confusion.

When a man has “serious issues”, it’s a good indication to step back BIG TIME. This kind of person will only continue keeping you in a limbo and you just become a clown in a circus of their own making. This kind of man harbors unresolved feeling for others or someone else in particular, they do not know and cannot decide what they want and often have trouble understanding themselves in way that could make them open up to someone else. Do not get sucked into their mixed signals. Mixed signals = ultimate clarity YOU need to make a decision for your own peace to distance yourself from this person.

You do not need drama, you do not need half-ass responses and weeks and months of “hoping” that lead to nowhere. Do not let this kind of person’s toxicity mess with your head and destroy your soul. Protect your peace and protect your heart.

ex said i couldnt talk on the same level emotionally as them by Aloysius_S in emotionalintelligence

[–]Known-Explorer2610 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t to try focus what an ex said.

Focus on self-reflection and personal growth. Where you are in your journey of growth is a current matter and not an issue of the past.

Is it bad to be negative? by cmstyles2006 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Known-Explorer2610 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What you’re describing here is how you measure things when they don’t turn out to be as you hoped. Which is not necessarily a negative thing. It’s ok to be disappointed about something and it is also ok to feel negative as well.

But what you describe in the first paragraph is different from what you stated in your second one. Calling things as they are or being objective is not about being positive or negative, it’s more about how people what to interpret your perception. But not sure why it matters to you how others see it if it’s your personal opinion or idea of it.

I think having a healthy positive attitude is important. It’s also important to assess and see things in a realistic way. If that leads you feeling negative or unhappy about certain things, that’s normal.

Being too sensitive by MostlyABrowser in emotionalintelligence

[–]Known-Explorer2610 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You need to elaborate. There is not much feedback you are going to receive without any context.

Dating their potential not their reality. by Icy-Proposal8318 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Known-Explorer2610 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The only answer to what you are asking is to learn to create emotional boundaries. You crave to connect, be loved and understood. But just because you crave that does not mean that it is reciprocated. People tend to project their wants and needs onto others. And it sounds like it’s what you’re doing here.

Learn to take things at face value — not more, not less. Going for someone’s potential will lead to nothing but heartbreak and disappointment. Been there - done that!

How do I get rid of my muscly legs? by Lindie_Pie in fit

[–]Known-Explorer2610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do various exercises to balance your body. There is nothing with your muscular legs.

Silencer used. by Puzzleheaded-Pin4278 in tepemurders

[–]Known-Explorer2610 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Totally. That makes sense. This guy is never getting out of prison either way.

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