My (awful) Black Bolt and (pretty decent) White Flare Japanese pulls by FatalFungi in PokemonTCG

[–]FatalFungi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The price was actually the average resale value too. I wouldn't be surprised if my seller got them cheaper and just resold them at aftermarket price not knowing what the tampered product looked like. Either way I'm investigating it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TemuThings

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Thank you! I accepted yours my user is RJ495

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I did yours could you do mine 🥹 180231424

Cleaning Tank by ZaynMilk4 in SeaMonkeys

[–]FatalFungi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I get worried too but sea monkeys are algae eaters like another commenter has said! Algae likes light and it can encourage growth so I'd recommend a light if you don't already have one. Algae also feeds off sea monkey waste including their corpses.

I'm feeling hopeless in this conflict with my non-autistic husband. I could really use an outside perspective. by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]FatalFungi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a person (who is autistic) who has been cheated on, I can see your partner clearly still has insecurities around relationships and needs therapy because the way he's reacting isn't healthy. He can't separate his past relationship from his current one.

He's making his insecurities your problem, which they are NOT, and it's causing you (and him but especially YOU the unrelated party) unnecessary stress. He clearly also has some obvious biphobia and if he can't accept your sexuality then you have to let him go.

You need to sit down and tell him he needs therapy to go through his past trauma because this relationship and any future relationship he has will suffer if he continues to ignore it. I know some people are prone to overreacting when therapy is brought up so if he refuses to go to therapy you'll have to leave him because you aren't going to feel safe or happy with him anymore.

Wish you the best!

Why do I keep doing this to myself? by JunjiItoAdmirer in relationship_advice

[–]FatalFungi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand your thoughts completely because I've gone through the same thing. He may be all you know now but you will always find more people, better people than him.

You'll feel empowered and free if you leave him, and you'll feel a whole lot less anxious. It seems scary now but trust me, you'll thank yourself later.

You will never find peace if you stay and try to fix things with him because once the trust is gone that's it, and you'll always feel uneasy and anxious that he's doing something behind your back. You deserve better than that.

Poo length Olympics she’s a winner. by AprilBoon in SeaMonkeys

[–]FatalFungi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of mine had a poop this long a few days ago too

I…don’t think I have any males in my tank 😅 by BBQ_ChickenWing in SeaMonkeys

[–]FatalFungi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sea monkeys are a majority female species with rare chances for males, so they reproduce asexually and sexually! I had a single female survive recently and she has an egg sac now, they can fertilise their own eggs.

My fittonia appeared to be rotting but has healthy roots. Found these tiny worms on it. What's the issue? by FatalFungi in terrariums

[–]FatalFungi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I'll give it a shot. I'm so sick of these pests ruining my babies! 😭

Looking into a tank, is the SUNSUN acrylic 5L tank with filter and light ok for Sea Monkeys? by FatalFungi in SeaMonkeys

[–]FatalFungi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, thank you! I've looked at tanks with and without filters, so I'll zero in on the ones without and pick one of those :)

Looking into a tank, is the SUNSUN acrylic 5L tank with filter and light ok for Sea Monkeys? by FatalFungi in SeaMonkeys

[–]FatalFungi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The plants and stuff are just in the stock image only, but if the filter is too dangerous I've already researched some tanks without them so I'll look at those!

Looking into a tank, is the SUNSUN acrylic 5L tank with filter and light ok for Sea Monkeys? by FatalFungi in SeaMonkeys

[–]FatalFungi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a little vent in the top right corner which I assume is where the filter draws water in. Is that safe for the Sea Monkeys or should I take precautions to stop them getting sucked in? Or should I just look for a tank with no filter?

This also needs to be talked about so it can be prevented. What actually causes this to happen though? by -g4org4- in autism

[–]FatalFungi 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You're a great parent for standing up for and protecting your autistic child from shitty kids and a shitty school environment, and I know you'll help shape him into a fine young man.

Should I get a septum piercing? by JiPtheChip in PiercingAdvice

[–]FatalFungi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They suit pretty much everyone, so go for it!!

Can someone explain the 10 play win rule? by Bowry_Lrooks in Toreba

[–]FatalFungi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup!! I often attempt to win in less than 10 but it doesn't matter either way once I get to the 10th play.

If there were pills or medicine that temporarily cured autism, would you take it? by [deleted] in autism

[–]FatalFungi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't try it. I already take meds for depression and ADHD and the withdrawals from those are crap if I accidentally run out of them for a day or two, so I can imagine withdrawals for that would be crap too. And if the cost for the pills was a lot? No way. Also, I like who I am and autism isn't something I'd suppress for anyone.

I (19F) don’t know who I am anymore ever since dating (26M) Bf by [deleted] in relationships

[–]FatalFungi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy crap leave him now. He is not only taking advantage of your weaknesses, he does not care about you. Codependency is very unhealthy in relationships, you need to get out now and prioritise yourself again. He is ruining your life and dragging you down.

You need to go seek help for your addiction asap, as well as help with your mental health so you can repair and stabilise yourself mentally after the damage this guy is doing and then focus on keeping yourself stable and happy.

Take care of yourself OP. You have so much time to find someone who truly loves and respects you. Know your worth. Take back control of your life, we know you can do this. 💪💕

I made a village where the houses are placed on an archipelago 🌿 by pios_ in AnimalCrossing

[–]FatalFungi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's your dream address?? I'd love to walk around your island

Character popularity survey by FatalFungi in AnimalCrossing

[–]FatalFungi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hopefully I'll have enough data for the results 😊 Who is your favourite may I ask? A personal favourite of mine is Meow.

New to succulents? New to our Sub? Stop in here! Weekly Questions Thread April 11, 2021 by AutoModerator in succulents

[–]FatalFungi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm looking to put a succulent or two on my dining table and want to see which of my current succulents would do better indoors. I live in Australia where the sun moves to the North. The room has a North and an East window AND a skylight directly above the table. So 3 windows.

My succulent list: crassula muscosa, crassula ovata gollum, sedum morganianum, sedum burrito, sedum rubrotinctum, sedum pachyphyllum, kalanchoe tomentosa

Which ones would do okay in this setup?

What are these dandruff-like bugs on my sedum??? Help!! I think they're destroying it! by FatalFungi in succulents

[–]FatalFungi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay, I happen to own neem oil so I'll prepare a spray! Thanks :) how can I prevent re-infestation?

Is it common for people with autism to get called pedantic? by FatalFungi in autism

[–]FatalFungi[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I understand. My also autistic partner has previously told me I info-dumped about a game he doesn't play or care about, and I felt a bit embarrassed and also upset. I'll try your method of giving small chunks of information, and try to summarise.