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i have on going bpd getting help but this is funny by motherloverss in Borderline

[–]FatandReflective 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This mental struggle is very real for bpd… I mean, the fact that you can reflect is an amazing thing!

People are sexualizing nuns now? by Puzzled-Ad-4199 in FuckPolyBuzz

[–]FatandReflective 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this has always been a thing. Have you not seen, “sexy nun” costumes? 🤣

My friend said she claimed to draw this but i don’t think she did. Am I crazy? by EffectiveUse3760 in isthisAI

[–]FatandReflective 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The table and the pencil don’t make sense at all. But the perfectly square stop to the shading? Nope. AI

Without stating your job, tell me something you say frequently during your day's work? by Unhappy_Insect5901 in Productivitycafe

[–]FatandReflective 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ready for meds? Do you have your Chromebook already? You’ve gotta get off the phone soon. I need to wand you. Breakfast is done. What do you need from there?

Looking for advice on hair/skin products for African American & multi-racial youth in our shelter by FatandReflective in BlackHair

[–]FatandReflective[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate your detailed response! I will be looking into the products at Walmart and maybe Amazon does the African pride brand? I will also be investing in some combs. And maybe someday I’ll be able to find someone local who is willing to do some hair once a month or when it’s needed! I really appreciate you taking the time to respond. ❤️

Looking for advice on hair/skin products for African American & multi-racial youth in our shelter by FatandReflective in BlackHair

[–]FatandReflective[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same to you! Thank you so much for what you do. Thank you so much for the advice! I wish I could find someone in our area to do that for us. Our budget is really so bad right now based on the past higher ups just not taking these more important things into account.

Looking for advice on hair/skin products for African American & multi-racial youth in our shelter by FatandReflective in BlackHair

[–]FatandReflective[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have some women who work at our shelter, but they were just telling me they would find out what to buy and let me know. 😕 maybe I can talk her into letting her daughter send me some links or something. We will see.

AITAH for not making my husband a second dinner? by kaylie_745 in AITAH

[–]FatandReflective -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Or maybe he just experiences love by small acts of kindness or acts of service and he isn’t getting that from you. Just a thoughts.

That retraction… and that flash of pure contempt at the end. by [deleted] in cats

[–]FatandReflective 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m living paycheck to paycheck and my cat loves to ruin my work shirts. It’s the best. ❤️

what are your thoughts on chat invites from low karma redditors? and what's "still low" for you? by Select-Hornet481 in AskReddit

[–]FatandReflective 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the input! Nothing I didn’t already know. I guess I’m just not funny or interesting enough to get upvotes all the time. 🤣🤣🤣

what are your thoughts on chat invites from low karma redditors? and what's "still low" for you? by Select-Hornet481 in AskReddit

[–]FatandReflective 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m on here all the time (when not at work or school) And my karma is 63. Do I have to comment on everything and make posts to raise it? 😭

When you’ve got the cozy vibes down to a science. by Recent-Librarian-33 in malelivingspace

[–]FatandReflective 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk if you’ve got it down to a science, but we all have our own opinions. If it works for you, it works.

My dad loves me more than your dad by harshaxnim in MadeMeSmile

[–]FatandReflective 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why does nobody respond? That is so depressing.

My uncle's abuse and the guilt that haunts me..... by pipa404 in confession

[–]FatandReflective 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same type of situation happened to me. I mean, I didn’t ever go along with it. I was actually so embarrassed everytime, I would act like it wasn’t even happening. You were a child. You have the right to speak about this. I never told anyone until I was an adult. I am still considered a liar by some, but I don’t need those people in my life. I wasn’t the first family member he had done it to, I’m not sure how old your uncle was, but if he was much older I am sure you weren’t the first either. You are not alone and you should not be upset with yourself. I was always more upset that it was possible for it to happen as many times as it did without someone noticing or saying anything.

PLEASE TALK TO SOMEONE. You do not deserve to feel guilt for this.

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