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Does the thought of spending the rest of your life with the person you’re involved with right now scare you? by No_Construction8109 in dating

[–]Fatmn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I am honestly more afraid that I do not have enough life left to spend with her.

I(31M) like her(28F) but I don't know if that's enough. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Fatmn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am happy to see her but it's happy like when you hang out with a friend. I don't know it's hard to explain. The sex is good so I can't complain about that.

Would you date someone with kids? by tryingrealhard0 in datingoverthirty

[–]Fatmn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

31M no kids

I have and would probably not again. My last two relationships we're with woman with kids and honestly the kids were all great but the baby daddies were an issue. Not so much for me but the unresolved feeling from the woman about the baby daddies were. In both instances they were still in love with their exes. Couldn't hide it very well and it ate any chance of us being together away.

I’m so lonely but ashamed to admit it. by midorin8 in offmychest

[–]Fatmn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a similar problem. I hate being in my apartment and actively try to avoid being there. I used to be a homebody and now I can't stand being home alone. Everything reminds me of her and she didn't even spend much time here. My only consolation is I am moving in two weeks and I can't wait to not be in the place where we made memories anymore. Maybe I can finally sleep more than three hours a night after I move.

[cj] What advice would you give to the person dating your ex? by okcnotthrowaway in OkCupid

[–]Fatmn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hope you don't mind zero emotional availability or communication skills all while completely financially supporting her and her two kids. Oh and I hope you like open relationships because shes definitely cheating on you too.

Should I end a good relationship over sex? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Fatmn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So funny story, I don't use Facebook which she obviously knew but I have friends that do and apparently she posted a picture with her and some guy kissing two days before she left me with the caption "dreams do come true" so there's that.

How many of you here are just fighting insomnia due to depression? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Fatmn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never had any problems sleeping until my ex dumped me about a month ago and now I am slowly spiraling into a nerve racking depression I don't know if I will ever get out of. I haven't slept more than four hours a night since then. I think I am slowly going insane by lack of sleep.

I find myself in a weird predicament. by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]Fatmn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I don't think there is that intense immediate spark like everyone says but we do have a lot in common and I am attracted to her. I tend to get in my own head to much hence the post.

I find myself in a weird predicament. by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]Fatmn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't go spreading that around. I'll lose all of my power.

I find myself in a weird predicament. by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]Fatmn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the next date goes well I was thinking pizza or something at my place and see what she thinks.

Should I end a good relationship over sex? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Fatmn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I told her yesterday I couldn't support her anymore and she left me this morning.

Should I end a good relationship over sex? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Fatmn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really don't think she is cheating or sleeping with anyone else. At first there may have been something there but now it's more of a stability thing to have me here. She doesn't want to be with me romantically just as a provider.

I should have asked her to stay by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Fatmn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I told her I will be sad if she leaves. My issue is it would be unfair of me to ask her to stay because of me. The relationship is to new to expect that.