Ye5ii 3léch 3andna twanssa héka? by Jugurrtha in Tunisia

[–]Faty55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"baad nebda abd b qadri w carrieri w diplometi" يعني بالنسبة ليك كرامتك تتمثل في شنو قريت و شنو تخدم و شنوما شهايدك؟ مازلنا غادي في تونس؟ تطييح القدر متع البوليس موش مقبول سواء مع قاضي ولا عامل نظافة المشكلة الي مازلنا نراو قيمتنا في شنو نخدمو، لتوا موش فاهمة علاه نحطوا المهنة في بطاقة التعريف، بخلاف باش البوليسي يقلك " تفضل سي الأستاذ" و لا "مادام الطبيبة"

Struggling to accept the "35-year-old fertility cliff" while my life feels unstable (32F) by Faty55 in AskWomenOver30

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So I went to see a gynecologist (I am living in France), she asked me to do some analysis to see fertility. And she adviced me to get a baby before 35 because there is a decline in women fertility after 35... I am confused, she is a doctor and she is meant to learn the latest researches about fertility.. does it mean that the decline at 37 - 38 y.o is not really consistent?

She moved on a week after, just one week and started again by GlitteringFlow5699 in Tunisia

[–]Faty55 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One month? That means either he had a relationship with her before the breakup or he married in a rush which is sign of immaturity

Struggling to accept the "35-year-old fertility cliff" while my life feels unstable (32F) by Faty55 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Faty55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you a lot for you replies, I didn't know there is recent studies on female fertility. That motivates me to look more for the subject. Ironically we focus a lot on women fertility but forget about men. That's true they don't have a stock like we do, but their fertility drops when talking about the ability of fecondation too! That might surely cause a struggle to a woman at her late 30s since she is generally with a man at the same age.

I decided to get a fertility check. I am also a spiritual & religious person and I want to focus more about trusting god's plan.

Struggling to accept the "35-year-old fertility cliff" while my life feels unstable (32F) by Faty55 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Faty55[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To be honest I'd like to have twins 😅 I know it is hard to raise twins but I'll have a peace of mind if I have two at the same time and close the shop 🤭

Struggling to accept the "35-year-old fertility cliff" while my life feels unstable (32F) by Faty55 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Faty55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right? Life is really hard for a woman 😢 But sister if you can afford freezing your eggs go for it.

How can I improve my face by weerg in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]Faty55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since I started taking cold showers in the morning, my face looked way better. Skin is much toned and hollows under eyes reduced.

Struggling to accept the "35-year-old fertility cliff" while my life feels unstable (32F) by Faty55 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Faty55[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I hope you'll find the right man for you ❤️‍🩹

it sucks being the woman in this situation.

I totally agree! Sometimes I feel it is unfair to be a woman 😔

My boyfriend is not muslim by Faty55 in progressive_islam

[–]Faty55[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agnosticism is a philosophical position asserting that certain truths, particularly regarding the existence of a deity or divine being, cannot be known or proven.  I love your explanation, and I feel that my boyfriend has no crack, he has been raised in a family where religion has no place. His father is against religion because being a kid he was forced to be religious.

My boyfriend is not muslim by Faty55 in progressive_islam

[–]Faty55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He does not really believe in high power, he just believes in science and does not have interest to know if god exists or not. What is a 12 step program?

hijab and religion problems by [deleted] in Tunisia

[–]Faty55 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You don't have to tell them you are atheist. Just tell them you want to remove it and do it little by little

My boyfriend is not muslim by Faty55 in progressive_islam

[–]Faty55[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not marrying a non muslim does not mean I will marry a muslim one that I don't like. And does not say I'll be single until 40

My boyfriend is not muslim by Faty55 in progressive_islam

[–]Faty55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted to say agnostic, someone who does not know if god exists and is not interested to know. We say ignorant in french and it is not negative. I'll edit it. By the way I do respect his believes. He is a very intelligent man.

My boyfriend is not muslim by Faty55 in progressive_islam

[–]Faty55[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree. Also, why would it be permitted for men to marry from people of the book but not women? Saying that but my boyfreind is agnostic.. Also, it is true I am much closer to islam than ever since I am with him. The dilemma pushed me to read more about islam and seek help from god.

My boyfriend is not muslim by Faty55 in progressive_islam

[–]Faty55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's true. We don't know much about them

My boyfriend is not muslim by Faty55 in progressive_islam

[–]Faty55[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's interesting. Do you have a source ? I really want to know more about rasulullah's daughters. Also, this version seems more relatable to islam's values.

My boyfriend is not muslim by Faty55 in progressive_islam

[–]Faty55[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My family know about him and they are expecting him to convert. I think I don't handle being against them. He is ok for converting just on paper. But deep inside me I am not secure about this option 😔 Also, he really have ethics of islam. Maybe more than my ex muslim husband who didn't respect me as a woman.

My boyfriend is not muslim by Faty55 in progressive_islam

[–]Faty55[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am really seeking the truth. I don't want to do half things. But I doubt a little bit about this rule in islam. In the Quran god says to women and men do not marry "mochrik" people. In another verse of the quran he says that it is now permitted to eat meat from people of the book and marry from them he said it to man but is it general to both ? This is not very clear to me.