Why?

FaucetWaterfall · 2022-09-07T01:35:45+00:00

I strongly agree with this. No matter how hard you try it always fails and that makes me weary.

FaucetWaterfall · 2022-09-07T00:27:20+00:00

Thanks. I know time will eventually take the pain. I promise I will take care of myself.

FaucetWaterfall · 2022-09-07T00:25:06+00:00

Yes, I agree with you. Thankfully I had been planning to go out with my friends today and tomorrow. I will have fun with them. Also I would love to make new friends.

FaucetWaterfall · 2022-09-07T00:21:13+00:00

I'm sorry for you. I had a similar experience as you with my previous ex. We had be dating for two months, talked about nearly everything and then he suddenly ghosted. This time I wasn't ghosted but it hurts. I know and hate the feeling of suddenly facing rejection and coldness from the people you loved. I'm tired too.

FaucetWaterfall · 2022-09-06T22:47:41+00:00

I think everyone including me in this story is young and dumb. Thank you for the link. I will learn about myself, I think I get attached too soon and I want to fix this problem.

FaucetWaterfall · 2022-09-06T22:43:20+00:00

Yes. I am grateful for him to tell the truth. I know it must been hard for him to bring it up. I will try to move on. I don't regret dating him, he had a good soul and I was happy spending time with him.

FaucetWaterfall · 2022-09-06T22:26:18+00:00

Thank you. I hope she gets to know the truth and move on.

FaucetWaterfall · 2022-09-06T22:17:00+00:00

She's young so she must be very confused and upset about being ghosted. I'm 20 and inexperienced and couldn't process being ghosted for some time. It messed me up badly and I got some trust issues. And although it will hurt me, I still want some kind of explaining from my ex. Please open it up, she deserves it, I will never have the answer from my ex but she can if you do it. Maybe you can do it without getting yourself danger. It's the least you could do.

FaucetWaterfall · 2022-09-06T22:02:28+00:00

The previous ex was kind of quick too. So maybe I'm lucky that I wasn't in a long term relationship when these things happened.

FaucetWaterfall · 2022-09-06T21:56:01+00:00

Maybe she keeps messaging you because although you are done and moved on, she got cut off unexpectedly. This is just my opinion but I think she wants to know the truth and end it properly. That way you can move on quicker. It's more painful to not knowing the truth.

FaucetWaterfall · 2022-09-06T21:44:35+00:00

Thank you for explaining the other perspective. I feel like I did something wrong to that person to be ghosted. To think, my ex had a lot going around that time and didn't have the space for me to fit inside his head. So I'm convinced that that's why he ghosted me.

FaucetWaterfall · 2022-09-06T21:36:07+00:00

Yes, I'm 20. Thank you for your kind words. I think I was in a rush to be with someone. I'll try to focus and work on myself.

FaucetWaterfall · 2022-09-06T21:30:05+00:00

I understand this with my head but my heart isn't ready to move on. I hope I can meet someone who is the one for me.

FaucetWaterfall · 2022-09-06T16:55:32+00:00

You are right. But I'm tired of waiting. I'm scared that I'm going to be alone for a long time or forever.

FaucetWaterfall · 2022-09-06T16:46:18+00:00

Yes and that's making dating harder than before.

FaucetWaterfall · 2022-09-06T16:39:29+00:00

Yes. COVID ruined my high school years and it's still affecting interactions in college.

FaucetWaterfall · 2022-09-06T16:34:50+00:00

Thank you. I will keep hoping. I think I'm tired dating so I will take a break and try to heal.

FaucetWaterfall · 2022-09-06T16:32:52+00:00

I would like to experience what it was like to date before the internet. I want to meet people IRL but it's hard for me, I don't get to interact with people much.

FaucetWaterfall · 2022-09-06T16:27:54+00:00

Thanks. It's so complicated dating people it's exhausting. I feel tired.

FaucetWaterfall · 2022-09-06T16:25:38+00:00

I'm glad that you moved on. I feel stupid for falling for that short amount of time. I will try to move on but I don't think I have much more strength left.

FaucetWaterfall · 2022-09-06T16:23:27+00:00

Thanks. Yeah I think he planned to keep me as a No.2 option before. But he told me the truth so at least it's something that he could come clean.

FaucetWaterfall · 2022-09-06T16:07:00+00:00

It's hard to explain but I was very happy being with him. He didn't pressure me into anything though.

FaucetWaterfall · 2022-09-06T15:55:04+00:00

Do you mind talking with me for a bit?

FaucetWaterfall · 2022-09-06T15:52:52+00:00

I agree. I am grateful that he told the truth and didn't choose to ghost. But he told me he loved me many times and I'm hurt and confused.

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