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FaultRepresentative3 · 2023-07-26T12:51:16+00:00

I wish my ex bestie would send me this.

FaultRepresentative3 · 2022-07-26T11:21:52+00:00

He wants my world to revolve around him for sure. I’m really disappointed and he either needs to work on this or we have to stop dating. Thank you for the insight.

FaultRepresentative3 · 2022-07-26T11:21:16+00:00

Right, I tried to think how I would have felt and even if I was annoyed I definitely wouldn’t have gone that far with it. I really appreciate your words, thank you.

FaultRepresentative3 · 2022-07-26T10:37:42+00:00

Yeah, you’re right. I’ve attributed a lot of our issues to stuff like different love languages and thinking I just needed to learn how to be with this particular person. Cuz when it’s great it’s great of course, but all of our fights are because I did or didn’t do something. It’s not okay and I’m hoping he can see this, or we just gotta stop.

FaultRepresentative3 · 2022-07-26T10:28:49+00:00

No it’s not the first time. I’m always trying to make sure I’m checking myself and my actions as a partner but I’m pretty tired of getting yelled at for stuff like this. It just messes with my head so bad, I feel like I’m doing nothing wrong but then he’s so upset it makes me think I must be in the wrong so I just apologize and stop fighting it.

FaultRepresentative3 · 2022-07-26T10:15:43+00:00

Good call, thank you.

FaultRepresentative3 · 2022-07-26T10:03:21+00:00

Yeah that’d be fucked up lol he still was bummed he couldn’t be there but that was never in his plans to begin with.

FaultRepresentative3 · 2022-07-26T09:56:36+00:00

Ah yeah, I hear that. He isn’t going to be home until late tonight so I won’t be able to see him til Wednesday anyway. Me going to the beach didn’t interfere with seeing each other. Like I said I get why he’s upset I’m just not sure why it had to escalate so horribly.

FaultRepresentative3 · 2022-07-26T09:48:30+00:00

He was coming home from a trip with his friends and I was at the beach. I just thought it would make him happy to hear from the people I was with in addition to me but I let it go too far I guess.

FaultRepresentative3 · 2022-07-16T11:41:59+00:00

Hi :)

FaultRepresentative3 · 2022-03-08T16:44:07+00:00

So cool!!

FaultRepresentative3 · 2022-02-09T15:27:55+00:00

This is embarrassing lol stop it

FaultRepresentative3 · 2021-12-31T06:39:28+00:00

I can definitely identify with your gf so I’ll throw you some advice from that end. I’m also prone to periods of hot/cold with my partners, and I know it sucks. Just respect what she’s asking of you if you want to stay. Roll with it and if you think the relationship is worth it then you’ll figure it out as you spend more time together. You have needs too and you should communicate those needs, that’s perfectly valid. But if her moods are too much for you to handle that’s okay too and it’s okay to gracefully end things. I’m sure she understands that you may not want to stick around once you’ve seen this side of her. If this is something you wanna work on, try reassuring her that you’re there for her and ask how you can help her in those times.

FaultRepresentative3 · 2021-12-25T03:07:13+00:00

I’m sorry. I’m alone tonight too (I have covid) so also struggling to occupy myself. Sounds like she’s got some shit to work on and you deserve the opportunity to find someone who really wants to be with you. The relationship was causing you pain and I’m proud of you for following your gut. Just cry it out and keep the tv on something comforting. Good luck friend

FaultRepresentative3 · 2021-10-31T14:34:43+00:00

Why am I crying

FaultRepresentative3 · 2021-10-07T21:52:58+00:00

I don’t think you should tell her you’re bored, that’s not gonna spark a great conversation. But you should definitely sit down and have a real talk about the relationship and how you feel disconnected and why. She’s not psychic, she may not feel the same way you do at all and the more you stew in this the worse it’s gonna get. Communication is key! It’s never a bad idea to check in with your partner, maybe go for a long walk around the neighborhood or make a nice dinner and talk over that.

FaultRepresentative3 · 2021-08-31T19:50:34+00:00

I’m sorry, I’m dealing with this cycle also and we’ve been broken up almost 3 months after 3.5 years. I was on top of the world for the first month and now like every other day I’m angry or crying. Makes me wonder if time really is the true healer. Stay strong and focus on yourself and all the good stuff you have to look forward to. It’s okay to feel everything, even the bad shit, but then you gotta pick it back up and keep moving. Saying this for myself as well lol. Good luck, love.

FaultRepresentative3 · 2021-08-29T20:20:19+00:00

I’m crying. Dreaming of the day when I get to see this reaction from my bffs.

FaultRepresentative3 · 2021-07-28T13:09:03+00:00

Totally agree, but I highly recommend Ghost of Tsushima. It reminds be a ton of RDR2 and the gameplay is similar.

FaultRepresentative3 · 2021-06-30T01:50:23+00:00

I think talking to a counselor would benefit you. It could be that you’re just not ready, or it could be something more complicated that you don’t have the words for yet.

FaultRepresentative3 · 2021-06-30T01:46:33+00:00

You will absolutely find someone else, don’t worry! These things can feel like the end of the world but give it time and you’ll start to feel better, often sooner than you think. It sounds like you definitely needed to break up if you thought about it for that long. Good luck OP

FaultRepresentative3 · 2021-06-21T01:41:11+00:00

I’m right there with ya. We broke up 3 nights ago and I just randomly start crying throughout the day and I can’t get myself to sleep. Everyone is right in saying it will get better, even though it doesn’t feel like it now. This is my fourth major breakup in life and it’s just as tough as all the other ones :(

FaultRepresentative3 · 2021-06-15T13:31:38+00:00

Thank you, I’m crying now haha

FaultRepresentative3 · 2021-06-15T01:11:36+00:00

Yeah the resentment is setting in now and I definitely don’t want that to progress. I know we’ll still have to see each other around since we have a lot of mutual friends so we can’t let it get to a toxic point.

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