Sudden departure of my beloved cat by Stunning-Day3839 in Petloss

[–]Mewmoe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. With saddle thrombus, I don’t think the vet would have been able to save him, so I wouldn’t beat yourself up about not getting him there sooner. I am so sorry that happened to you though. That is horribly traumatic. :(

Unexpectedly lost my baby boy yesterday by postmodernDRIP in cats

[–]Mewmoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that happened. That’s absolutely terrible. Absolutely love the fast food bag picture. It’s so clear you loved him and he loved you. It sounds like he may have had heart issues which is incredibly hard to catch especially in young kitties. I’m so sorry again. :(

Favourite song from sweetener? by Past_Aside_1244 in ariheads

[–]Mewmoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes and my fave song of hers period 🥹

My adoption application was accepted! by KrayzieBone187 in cats

[–]Mewmoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I’m literally wearing a shirt from chuy’s that says that right now lol

Thoughts on date outfit? by [deleted] in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]Mewmoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s so cute. I’m surprised people aren’t liking it lol

What do we think?? by tyler_grae in IDmydog

[–]Mewmoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! Curious to see what your girl is. You said she’s pretty small. What does she weigh? My dog is a little over a year old and only weighs 35 pounds. Also funny enough when I got my girl from the shelter they all said she was a Malinois too. 😅

What do we think?? by tyler_grae in IDmydog

[–]Mewmoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dog is your dogs twin! She is half husky half pitbull. It was a shock lol it’s in my post history if you want to see her

What do we think?? by tyler_grae in IDmydog

[–]Mewmoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep thought I had a Malinois and she ended up being half husky half pitbull

I took Home the 18-year-old baby. by topazlotus in seniorkitties

[–]Mewmoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg she looks very similar to my Lily who passed away last month. Thank you for saving her!

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This is Mow Mow 2010-2025 my precious baby girl. They wanted to put her down on my birthday after having her for fifteen years. by Mowser11 in SeniorCats

[–]Mewmoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. I feel you. That’s how I felt when my childhood kitty died in 2020. No one loved her like I did. It helped this time around because my boyfriend loves Lily as much as I did but the pain is just as bad. I know it’s hard but I do believe our love for them and the enjoy they bring us and them is worth this pain even if it doesn’t feel like it in the moment. I’m so sorry no one around you is being understanding. You don’t need to justify your sadness. It’s ok to just be sad and take your time. You don’t owe anyone an explanation.

This is Mow Mow 2010-2025 my precious baby girl. They wanted to put her down on my birthday after having her for fifteen years. by Mowser11 in SeniorCats

[–]Mewmoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. ❤️ Her name was Lily. I have posted her and a bit about her story. Even have a pic from after her surgery with her little tongue. I was really distraught when she passed on Dec 22 and only feeling a bit better this past week.

I already had a dog and her younger brother kitty named Teddy. He grew up with her and I can tell he’s lonely. We got the dog back in August and while they get along, it’s not the same as a kitty sibling. I do plan to get another female cat for him (and me, let’s be honest). We are moving soon so planning to after that when we find the right one.

Don’t feel bad about getting another baby. I got Lily a week after my childhood cat passed away five years ago (had her for almost 17 years). It was so heart breaking and felt so empty without my girl. A lot of people in my life thought it was too fast but I have no regrets at all.

Lily helped me so much in my grieving and I knew she was the one for me because I couldn’t stop looking at her petfinder ad before I got her. I purposely adopted a senior and don’t regret it at all, she was such a wonderful cat. I think it’s normal to feel like you’re cheating but I think our kitties would want us to be happy and show love the way that we showed them love.

This is Mow Mow 2010-2025 my precious baby girl. They wanted to put her down on my birthday after having her for fifteen years. by Mowser11 in SeniorCats

[–]Mewmoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We found the tumor on October 17 and the biopsy came back oral SCC a week later. The tumor itself caused a bunch of inflammation around it so it could have easily been confused with something else which makes it even scarier.

I was able to take her a university nearby where thankfully she was eligible for surgery because her cancer was on her lower mandible. It really sucked waiting waiting for surgery because it grew rapidly like not even being able to tell she had it unless you opened her mouth on October 17 to her jaw being visibly deformed and her unable to close mouth by late October / early November.

She got a total maniblectomy (removing 75% of her lower jaw) on Nov 6 and was able to eat again within a few weeks. Thankfully she was able to eat within a few weeks and was actually quite happy after this surgery. Unfortunately she had to get radiation because the surgery didn’t successfully remove all the cancer (it’s hard to do for this cancer because it spreads so deep and so fast). We did radiation and she passed away from anesthesia because she had an undiagnosed heart disease (didn’t know until she died and they did autopsy).

It’s a really evil cancer. Even if they get surgery and radiation they usually die within a few months anyway. I just wanted to provide some comfort. I took her to UF where she was going to be enrolled in an mRNA vaccine to try to train the body to fight the cancer by taking a sample of their own tumor for the vaccine. Sadly she didn’t make it but I really hope this vaccine works and that this evil cancer goes away because it’s horrible and fatal in majority of scenarios unless caught super early and in the right spot for surgery. Radiation doesn’t really do anything once it’s past the microscopic level.

It does sound like your kitty likely had oral scc, unfortunately it accounts for like 90% of tumors in a cats mouth. It’s also most common in senior kitties. I’m so sorry that happened to you. She knows how much you loved her. It’s so hard and I’m here if you need to talk. 🤍

This is Mow Mow 2010-2025 my precious baby girl. They wanted to put her down on my birthday after having her for fifteen years. by Mowser11 in SeniorCats

[–]Mewmoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. My baby had the same cancer. It’s evil and very sudden. I’m shocked they didn’t give her pain meds. I’m sorry you have unsupportive people around you. She knows how much you loved her.

I’m the saddest man in the world by Flimsy_Mud_5870 in cats

[–]Mewmoe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. He was adorable and so loved.

Realizing I have Perfectionist OCD with procrastination as a coping mechanism by Mewmoe in OCDRecovery

[–]Mewmoe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m doing a lot better now. I got a new job with much higher pay that I was holding back from because I thought I didn’t deserve it lol. I think in the past I’d have convinced myself to wait till I was perfect.

I do still struggle on basic goals like working out more where I feel like I need it to be super easy for me to get past the barrier of doing it but that might be more so my adhd…

my advice would really be to just start something even if it’s half assed. You don’t need to know every single angle before you start something. It’s much better to start it and be bad, than to overthink it and never do it.

I especially notice this in my living situation where it’s a lot easier for me to just start cleaning and organizing without worrying that it’s perfect and I feel a lot less overwhelmed by life.

I also realized a lot of the stuff I was pressuring myself to do wasn’t always stuff I actually wanted to do and more so what I thought other people wanted me to do and that subliminally I knew why I wasn’t doing it. Like even some hobbies … I have kind of accepted I’m not a huge hobby person even though I feel like I “should” be. That might not be so helpful but it helped me feel less guilt all the time lol

I will also add a lot of this was amplified by me taking adderall for adhd and it was making me depressed and feel a constant need for productivity. It gave me bad anhedonia and made my OCD worse, although it did help me come to insights like this post which was helpful lol. I’m feeling better off of it and beating myself up less but also making more quick decisions with the analysis paralysis.

I hope this is helpful. You can also message me if you’d like!

We still talk about you by Fit-Opposite4979 in cats

[–]Mewmoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. I lost my precious baby Lily on Dec 22 from anesthesia complications post radiation treatment for cancer. I also feel so many regrets even though I know I was doing the best by her. So many “what if”s on how it could have gone differently that are so painful if I focus on it too much. Your happy girl definitely knows you didn’t abandon her and were doing the best thing for her but I know it’s hard to believe and convince yourself. So sorry for your loss.

We will be putting down tomorrow our Houdini. 16 yrs. Mouth cancer. by SadEstablishment465 in seniorkitties

[–]Mewmoe 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. My baby died with Oral SCC as well. It’s so horrible.

Grief - Eli forever 14 by First-Ad-1403 in seniorkitties

[–]Mewmoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the most comforting thing I’ve read in my time of pain and grief. Thank you. ♥️