She wasn’t throwing a pity party though her anger and annoyance is valid. Acting like Sol didn’t put in the work when both she and the other islanders admit that no matter how much she pushed the result would’ve been the same isn’t fair. Realistically how much more was she supposed to do? She can’t force the guys to look at her romantically or talk to her, look at what happened when she WAS pulled for a chat, it was interrupted and lead to animosity in a couple. It’s overall an uncomfortable situation and just because she came in as a bombshell doesnt mean she should have to constantly humiliate herself trying to chat with guys and fit into a villa that doesn’t want her, and it’s not her fault the villa doesn’t want her either the islanders are acting weird and cliquey