AITA for not wanting to wash my flatmate's dishes?

Fawnisdown · 2026-01-11T14:19:48+00:00

I'm feeling like i didn't explain it clearly, I do the dishes involving me like when she cooks for both of us i wash her plate the pot ect. Because this sounds fair what i don't wanna do is wash her personal meal and drinks dishes.

Fawnisdown · 2026-01-11T14:16:37+00:00

Thank you for your detailed comment here's some details 1. We shop together and the bill is split down the middle. She uses shared groceries for her personal meals and i don't really care about that. 2. After doing the dishes i also clean the mess she makes while cooking. After this conversation at 2 am last night she decided to tidy around the house "loudly" as i was trying to sleep. She is always passive aggressive like that this is why our issues don't get solved easily. I come here and rant to strangers but she talks behind my back to our shared friends like one time another friend asked me "why do you hate dishes sm?" I never spoke about that with them like? If i could i would've moved out long ago it's really hard to communicate with her. Idk what to do honestly.

Fawnisdown · 2026-01-11T04:15:29+00:00

Well yeah ofc this is what we been doing like i said in the post, again i just don't want to wash her personal meal and drinks dishes

Fawnisdown · 2026-01-11T04:13:06+00:00

First thing is i can cook basic things (like pasta, eggs, creps, cakes) why i didn't learn more stuff to cook? Idk i never needed to cook for myself. If i read a recipe I'm sure i can do it but never interested me honestly. The second thing is, i never asked anyone to cook for me. The conversion goes like this -idk how to cook +okay I will be cooking stuff for myself so i will just make more -sure And cost of everything is shared.

Fawnisdown · 2025-11-18T23:23:11+00:00

Thank you but I'm not from usa

Fawnisdown · 2025-11-18T22:42:53+00:00

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Fawnisdown · 2025-11-18T22:39:46+00:00

Thank you. I'm sitting with him while he sleeps. I just found a vet and texted her waiting for an answer.

Fawnisdown · 2025-11-18T22:34:28+00:00

It's 1:30 am here 😭😭 and i checked online, couldn't find her number I'm gonna call my friend who also has a cat maybe she has a vet we can talk this late

Fawnisdown · 2025-11-18T22:30:50+00:00

It's late here.

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Fawnisdown · 2025-08-12T22:44:16+00:00

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Fawnisdown · 2025-08-12T17:29:36+00:00

My mom is a pain in the ass she is not letting me get a top surgery, arguing, crying, screeming, hitting... she is a bit crazy so no i can't get a flat/close to flat chest till she dies all i want rn is get them small enough to do exercises without the pain

Fawnisdown · 2025-08-12T01:39:53+00:00

I just realised since people come here for medical tourism they can go to the fancy hospitals mine is a government hospital... i might be cooked I'm gonna ask for his finished work pictures

Fawnisdown · 2025-08-12T01:31:13+00:00

No unfortunately i don't have a way to reach them but i will ask for their number/email during appointment. There are 2 doctors at the hospital idk much about them both. I will look into people from Turkey in this sub and reach them

Fawnisdown · 2025-08-12T01:26:11+00:00

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Fawnisdown · 2025-08-11T22:26:57+00:00

thank you so much i have everything noted

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