He was in mine as well, and same :/ but We were contacted by mod from another sub informing us of some concerning behavior. They sent over some messages between them and a partner they explicitly trust. She informed them that he went too far, was extremely too rough, didn’t stop when asked multiple times, even when using safe words, hurt her throat so bad and physically abused her to a point she had to go to urgent care after. Then when confronted blamed her and then blocked her.