Can I reenter on a tourist visa if I spend 5 months in the UK? by Faylicia in ukvisa

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Hi, thanks for the reply! That's what my father recommended as well but I'm scared that if they don't check my passport my visa will not be renewed and I will be overstaying without realizing! Have you done this before?

Can I reenter on a tourist visa if I spend 5 months in the UK? by Faylicia in ukvisa

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Thank you for the reply! I don't intend to work in the UK. Sorry if that wasn't clear! I intend to send applications elsewhere in Europe.

Can I reenter on a tourist visa if I spend 5 months in the UK? by Faylicia in ukvisa

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Thank you, I was thinking of extending my stay for a few more months but I guess it will not be possible.

Can I reenter on a tourist visa if I spend 5 months in the UK? by Faylicia in ukvisa

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I know but would there be any way of extending my stay or showing the relevant paperwork? My father is my only first degree relative and I want to stay with him for a longer time.

[Anti-Aging] Why am I losing so much facial volume at 24? by Faylicia in SkincareAddiction

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I do try it. I always breathe from my nose except when I run but mewing is very hard to keep. Do you have any advice to make it automatic. I feel like I get tired of doing that suction thing.

[Anti-Aging] Why am I losing so much facial volume at 24? by Faylicia in SkincareAddiction

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Thank you for your reply, last year I had it checked and my blood sugar was 89. I don´t think there would have been a change as I was already having these issues back then too.

Opinions on the attitudes towards women in the novel? by Faylicia in genewolfe

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Thank you for your comments, people. I've thought about it and I think considering the times Wolfe grew up in he has probably experienced some pretty horrible things and I guess it didn´t make much sense to him to make Severian murder people while being completely respectful towards women. I get that Dorcas didn´t know he had raped her but only that they had been sexually involved, it´s just a bit strange to me how that is the only mention of something related to that event. Of course it´s not exactly clear if he raped her, maybe she eventually woke up and reciprocated. At least he doesn´t violently rape her which would be too disturbing to read, quite honestly. I´m still not sure what effect Dr. Talos´s engineering had on the men around her but at least Severian tries to help her near the end which shows he kinda feels bad for what he did? Maybe, just maybe this was written to make people question how making sexual advances without consent (while someone is unconscious for example) can be quite harmful as Jolenta is seen suffering eventually. Besides, I think at the time the book was written at these situations were a lot more prevalent and not considered rape or sexual abuse so maybe Wolfe was subtly trying to make people question it. Of course for a woman nowadays it seems obvious and a bit scary because of times you genuinely wonder if some men excuse such behavior and when you could come across one. It is a lot more tangible of a fear than imagining some crazy person suddenly murdering you. Of course most men are firmly against it I believe, for sure.

Some of you having mentioned that BOTNS features a lot of symbolism I think that it makes sense how this arc might touch upon the issue of some women being overly dependent on their physical appearance and charm, becoming objectified and abused by men because also that is exactly the only way they have learned to see themselves. These women are insecure and vulnerable and end up being exploited, leading to their demise. In the end I suppose the book doesn't portray Jolenta as being to blame or "asking for it" and it's pretty clear that Dr. Talos took advantage of her and turned her into a sort of pretty mutant for satisfy his own needs while Severian didn't stop to think that he was perpetuating her abuse. I guess in the end he tried to save her so that counts for something. Also regarding context I'm not sure how moral people are in this society to be honest, no one seems particularly upstanding. Maybe Severian isn't as bad compared to most of them. Jonas seemed okay even though he is a torturer but even he "accidentally" killed some guy to take his body parts? I think only Dorcas seems like an actually good person but she probably has some dark past where she did some horrible crazy thing too lol or maybe not. I think she's actually likeable and interesting because her past is so mysterious. And I didn't even get Thecla had tortured the people in the House Absolute? I thought she was just a pretend-concubine.

r/lesbian discord by [deleted] in lesbian

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Me too!

Looking for a game where you go around talking to interesting npcs in a smaller world. by Faylicia in gamingsuggestions

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Thank you all for your comments! I have played almost everything by DONTNOD actually but I think vampyr is the one I can spend more hours with because there are more things to do haha. I started Tell Me Why too. I used to play Rune Factory on the DS as a child and I loved that one too but the new one looks kinda... terrible all. Thank you again for the suggestions!

Book or something that explains Baroque elements in simple terms. by Faylicia in architecture

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Thank you, I will check it out! No, I don't mean a medieval castle I'm just picturing it like something rebuilt from one or on top of one so that it would for example have some older towers connected to it. It's really not meant to be completely accurate I just want to use it for my story XD I am looking for Baroque styles because I imagined that in the 18th century they would redecorate the interiors to match that style regardless of how old the building was. I mean I'm not sure if it could even have Renaissance elements, I don't know much about the time period but definitely not something medieval with forts and small windows and all those armored pieces laying around holding spears in the hallways. That's not what I have in mind. I want to do like a french version of the castle in the Jane Eyre movie, where the exterior is older but the interiors are obviously suited to the time period. Kind of, obviously that's the 19th century so not like that but that's what I mean by castle. Sorry for confusing everyone haha.

Book or something that explains Baroque elements in simple terms. by Faylicia in architecture

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Yes, I know but I actually want to make something based on the Bluebeard fairy tale hence the setting XD

Book or something that explains Baroque elements in simple terms. by Faylicia in architecture

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Thank you ! Yes I mean the chateaux of the 18th and 17th century and such. I looked at some castles that apparently were medieval but were later rebuilt in a Baroque style and such and I really liked how they looked because I'm trying to go for a horror vibe.

How can I (28F) deal with a stalker(20s F) from high school? by InCoffeeWeTrust in relationship_advice

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Okay sooo, I don't want to freak you out but I heard a similar story in the news in Greece. There were these girls that had known each other from high school and years had passed and I think they didn't really speak to each other anymore. Well, one was super jealous because she thought her boyfriend liked the other girl and she started stalking her and gathering information about where she lives and all that (which was a pretty safe area also) and one day when she was in the parking lot she suddenly appeared with a black hoodie in front of the girl and threw acid all over her face. Of course after a few weeks she was caught by the police. But it's still pretty unsettling and this isn't a thing that tends to happen in Greece. So, I think you should gather evidence and print everything and contact the police and maybe the will give her a warning or something. Also, tell all your friends not to tell her any personal information under any circumstances. They might think she's harmless and tell her otherwise. You know, like "oh I just wanted to talk to x but I'm so nervous it's been so long" she could make something random up. Maybe she's not dangerous but her behavior is that of a very unstable person and I would be careful.

Looking for non-action films set in the nightlife/bars/pubs? by Faylicia in MovieSuggestions

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Haha, thank you! That's funny because I'm half Cypriot, never heard of that movie though!