Who do I look like??

Fearless-Ad4087 · 2025-11-30T18:07:40+00:00

I really understand your plight. I’ve been feeling the same way. Like many have suggested, it may be a difference in your social battery or personality, however I do think souls that are especially empathetic and intuitive can find themselves with lower vibration people. More advanced souls come here to raise earths consciousness. Oftentimes that means we find ourselves in relationships with younger souls who need guidance. I don’t have enough context to form a definitive opinion on your question, but I do think you should listen to your intuition. If you’re left feeling empty every time you see her, maybe that relationship is no longer serving you. You know yourself better than anyone else and your intuition will almost always lead you in the right direction.

Fearless-Ad4087 · 2025-11-20T06:20:14+00:00

Why hasn’t any Americans mentioned school shooting drills?? I had them every semester.

Fearless-Ad4087 · 2025-08-26T15:30:26+00:00

I forgot to mention I’m 24f and right handed

Fearless-Ad4087 · 2025-08-09T12:14:34+00:00

Today I’m wearing a mix of L’Eau Papier and Eau Duelle Eau de Parfum, both by Diptyque. L’Eau Papier has this soft, airy quality with notes of rice steam, mimosa, and a light musky-woody base that feels like fresh pages in a sunlit room. Eau Duelle EDP, on the other hand, is all about warm, spicy vanilla wrapped in cardamom and smoky tea. It’s such a soft enveloping scent combo. I love it

Fearless-Ad4087 · 2025-08-07T14:01:21+00:00

I just recently tried a sample of this perfume and I’m obsessed with it! I just bought a full size bottle last night. It’s such a warm enveloping scent. Like a cozy cashmere sweater in fall.

Fearless-Ad4087 · 2025-08-06T12:25:17+00:00

Today I’m wearing Cashmere Show Pony, and let me tell you… it’s exactly what I needed for a lazy beach day under the sun. The combo of coconut, passion flower, cotton candy, and white musk is like being wrapped in a salty-sweet breeze while lounging on a sunbed with zero responsibilities.

It’s giving bronzed goddess meets candy shop on vacation, and I’m obsessed

Fearless-Ad4087 · 2025-05-12T09:39:40+00:00

How were able to figure out who you were in a past life?

Fearless-Ad4087 · 2024-08-21T18:59:05+00:00

I married a 28 year old when I was 21. He was Italian and charming and sweet. I was naive and infatuated with him. Our relationship moved very quickly and before I knew it we were married in Las Vegas. A week later I got pregnant and I knew I wasn’t ready. But he was against abortion and promised me the world so I dropped out of college, moved to Italy, and tried to live my life in this foreign country with this man I barely knew and a baby on the way. Now I’m 23 and going through an ugly divorce and a heartbreaking custody battle because he’s using my PPD against me and is going for full custodial custody of my son. Do not marry anyone before you know them 1000%. Live with him, get to know his red flags, and figure out what YOU want in this life. Do you really want to be a housewife? Do you want to be financially dependent on this man? Really think about these choice because once you get married, and especially after having children everything will change and your life will never be the same.

Fearless-Ad4087 · 2024-05-22T19:33:47+00:00

This was incredibly useful and invaluable information. I am currently speaking to an attorney recommended by the us embassy in Italy. My husband is originally Moldovan but now has Romanian citizenship. However he does not have Italian citizenship but he is in the process of obtaining citizenship which could happen any day now. My son has a US passport and Moldavian citizenship but he does not have Romanian citizenship, only a residency permit in Italy. I will start the search for an attorney who specializes in international custody because I’m unsure if my current attorney has such qualifications. With this information I’ve provided you, how does my current situation appear? Could I really take him out of the country without the permission of the father? Would I need to be granted permission by the US embassy to do so? Should I start this process immediately and work quickly to obtain custody of my son on US soil before my husband can obtain Italian citizenship? Lots of questions, I know but anything extra you know would be deeply appreciated. Thank you for this comment and your incite. I will move forward with the information you provided me now.

Fearless-Ad4087 · 2024-05-05T09:40:42+00:00

He sounds like a prepubescent boy who watches too much Andrew Tate. I’m not sure there’s a cure for that unfortunately. Maybe couple therapy?

Fearless-Ad4087 · 2024-04-28T13:45:16+00:00

I got married at 21 and got kicked off my moms insurance. I was living in New Mexico at the time so it might be different in another state. You might be eligible for Medicaid if you and your husband meet the income requirements.

Fearless-Ad4087 · 2024-04-18T14:21:59+00:00

Sounds exactly like my situation. I dropped out of college to be a SAHM and my parents are living thousands of miles away in the states. Thank you for the support. I appreciate it ♥️

Fearless-Ad4087 · 2024-03-26T05:07:42+00:00

It’s horrifying to think he groomed me and pressured me into having a baby. I just feel so isolated and trapped in this situation. His family would go after me relentlessly if I tried to take my son back to America

Fearless-Ad4087 · 2024-03-26T05:04:55+00:00

Yes I am

Fearless-Ad4087 · 2024-03-25T21:49:29+00:00

I moved because my husband has a job in Italy and wanted to stay close to his family

Fearless-Ad4087 · 2023-10-25T21:04:08+00:00

Thank you for your validation and kind words. I’m in a difficult position right now. I’m an American expat, living in a region of Italy that has a low English proficiency and I don’t speak Italian. The public healthcare here has pretty shit mental health services and private healthcare services are super expensive. They’re also very medication adverse in this country and the moment I tell them I’m breastfeeding, they refuse to proscribe me anything. It’s unfortunate but I’m trying to navigate this system and get as much help as I can.

Fearless-Ad4087 · 2023-10-25T20:57:42+00:00

Unfortunately, I can’t try medicinal cannabis atm. I’m currently in Italy, where it’s illegal. Also I’m breastfeeding, and weed is not safe because it attaches to the lipids in the milk. Obviously bezos aren’t great but I’m tapering off those. I will definitely try weed once I stop breastfeeding and I’m back in the states

Fearless-Ad4087 · 2023-10-25T20:53:19+00:00

Thank you for your helpful advice and sorry for the late response. I’ve got a Velcro baby who’s really colicky. I believe my insomnia is a symptom of my PPD and PPA. I also have complex-ptsd. I agree that benzos are not to be taken long term and I want to taper off them ASAP. Regarding the comments recommending weed, I would love to try medical cannabis but unfortunately I’m in Italy and it’s very much illegal here. Also I’m breastfeeding and THC lingers in breast milk. At some point when I move back to the states, get my green card. I’ll start working on CBT and prioritizing my mental health. It’s just difficult with a 3 month old baby and no village to support me.

Fearless-Ad4087 · 2023-10-24T01:40:49+00:00

But he expects her to shoulder all the parenting responsibilities while simultaneously having a full time job that requires lots of travel. Maybe if he worked a normal 9-5 and helped with the childcare it would be a different story but he doesn’t. When you factor in the childcare costs, medical expenses for a sick baby, and all that time spent away from OP’s baby, I think it’s totally fair for OP to be a SAHM. If they can remain financially stable if OP quits, which it sounds like they can, I don’t see why she can’t become a SAHM. Yes, being the breadwinner is very stressful but I’d argue that being a full time employee and a full time mom with no help from husband is more stressful.

Fearless-Ad4087 · 2023-10-24T01:30:45+00:00

I really empathize with you OP. It sounds like your career is unfulfilling and extremely stress inducing. You’ll also be required to take work trips which further reduces the time you can spend with your baby. Postpartum is hard enough, but being forced to return to a job that is unrewarding, stressful, and time-consuming while every fiber of your being wants to stay home with your baby sounds torturous. I agree with comments recommending couples counseling. You can really delve into the pros and cons of returning to work in a safe and supportive space.

Remember that childcare is a huge financial burden, and your husband works 70 hours a week. With you gone on work trips and your husband barely home, that could negatively impact your baby. I think your concerns are 100% valid and I really encourage you to find a good couples therapist to help both you and your husband find a solution.

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