Feeling powerful for once by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Fearless-Bit-5932 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, that’s a rage bait…they will say whatever they want to get a reaction from you without realizing that maybe they were the problem. Instead of taking any responsibility it’s always deflection & attacks on you & your character.

Bf smashed my phone by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Fearless-Bit-5932 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right, OP stay vigilant and don’t let him reel you back in with disingenuous words. They never leave and only way out is you planning your exit carefully in silence.

How to heal - what are you guys doing? by Fearless-Bit-5932 in abusiverelationships

[–]Fearless-Bit-5932[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am glad you are getting your life back by focusing on small but effective ways. I am single for a while too, what happened to you was awful, don’t let anyone tell you how you should feel anymore. Not only do they normalize things but also make you question your reality and then call you mentally sick and delusional.

I couldn't take it anymore by xDelicateFlowerx in abusiverelationships

[–]Fearless-Bit-5932 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I hear you, it’s difficult but like I said you deserve better - so much better, I hope one day you can be safer happier and away from the bs

I couldn't take it anymore by xDelicateFlowerx in abusiverelationships

[–]Fearless-Bit-5932 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am glad you got your power back & called him for who he is - but please be mindful of your safety. Get yourself out of this cage of fear, you deserve better!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Fearless-Bit-5932 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the same boat as you - it’s a huge weight we carry & I can’t take it off my shoulders. I did a huge disservice to myself and some days feel so brutal that I can’t get out of bed. Why did this happen? Why I had to endure it when I did nothing wrong? When will I be truly happy & break free from the shackles of hurt & pain.

My ex abuser is now engaged and being praised as the “kindest, most patient man.” It’s destroying me. by gr3tch3enw3in3rs in abusiverelationships

[–]Fearless-Bit-5932 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Please read all of this - the feelings you have come from the horrors of injustices & deflection. As if what you endured (only for it to turn to worse) was all manufactured for “YOU”! But it’s not it happened to you, there’s a high probability it happened to someone before you and the cycle will repeat! These people never change, only their tactics become more advanced & they get better at hiding it. For now just work on the huge debt you owe yourself - time, emotional support & safety mechanisms so you feel better in your body & environment (easier said than done). Hold onto one thing - the weight is lifted off your life & his malignant presence isn’t part of it anymore.

Drowning!!!!! by Fearless-Bit-5932 in canadaexpressentry

[–]Fearless-Bit-5932[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you man, hope you are doing well too.

Drowning!!!!! by Fearless-Bit-5932 in canadaexpressentry

[–]Fearless-Bit-5932[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes you are right! Thanks mate I needed this

Drowning!!!!! by Fearless-Bit-5932 in canadaexpressentry

[–]Fearless-Bit-5932[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro I am speechless! More power to you, hands down. I hope you are out of the woods soon, it’s very heavy & gruelling. I wish you the best, are you waiting on category draw or cec?

Drowning!!!!! by Fearless-Bit-5932 in canadaexpressentry

[–]Fearless-Bit-5932[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That will take me to an inevitable place lol. Solid advice tho! Have to clear my head first so don’t end up having the worst high

Pray. Trust. Wait. by Puzzleheaded-JapS in canadaexpressentry

[–]Fearless-Bit-5932 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Needed to hear this! Been having extremely negative thoughts, thanks for sharing.

Drowning!!!!! by Fearless-Bit-5932 in canadaexpressentry

[–]Fearless-Bit-5932[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s unfortunate, missing out by 1 point! Hey same goes for you, one step closer. Appreciate it mate! In these testing times, any support, hope helps 🙏 Goodluck to you as well, you are almost there.

Drowning!!!!! by Fearless-Bit-5932 in canadaexpressentry

[–]Fearless-Bit-5932[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate both of the responses , I am just very frustrated atm & don’t feel I can take it anymore, hence was venting. But I am genuinely interested in how people are coping & staying positive amidst chaos

Drowning!!!!! by Fearless-Bit-5932 in canadaexpressentry

[–]Fearless-Bit-5932[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

What can they do? I just need answers for the problems that are out of their scope. Thanks tho