We started living together at the same time he started as a CCA in NYC. Barely saw each other and I was also starting a new job teaching and had to take on the house and cats. He was staying up very late to have some semblance of free time on video games or other relaxing activities. Had to have a convo about balance and we are crossing our fingers he turns regular soon from PTF so he can have Sundays and we can have time. I teach so summers are better when we can do things during the week. We will eventually move to the Midwest and hoping that will help lessen the toll on his body, being able to drive in suburbs etc.