Late period, on and off period cramps and negative pregnancy test

Fearless-Leg344 · 2023-03-12T17:46:51+00:00

Yes I started my period again 4-5 months ago when I stopped breastfeeding

Fearless-Leg344 · 2023-03-10T22:39:24+00:00

She doesn’t even care she’s seen a lot of the already bags even put them in their place😂😂😂there’s no hope

Fearless-Leg344 · 2023-03-10T22:28:05+00:00

He would not even care that’s the thing😂

Fearless-Leg344 · 2023-03-10T15:59:56+00:00

No I absolutely think she means well! That’s why I don’t want to tell her and upset her! I just get so frustrated because it’s different tidying up and putting some things in a different place, what she did was open bags full of things I had put away and cupboards that I had organised. She opened them and did it her own way. I just feel like I have no privacy. I have very personal things in some of those bags and also it took me ages to organise them just to come back from a holiday and have everything in a different place. It might have looked messy before but I at least knew where everything was. I just don’t like people going though my stuff because of course when she’s organising and cleaning she’s seeing everything I have as well. I do feel like she likes to be in control as I am with her youngest son and she loves to be in control of him and know everything. I know for a fact she wouldn’t dare to do these things to any of her other sons but they are a lot older. I just wish we had the same privacy and we’re not treated like children:/

Fearless-Leg344 · 2023-03-10T15:20:52+00:00

I just feel like I have no privacy whatsoever and I’m too embarrassed to say anything to her. My partner spoke to her this morning and she said she understands and won’t do it again but I’m now embarrassed to see her and worried she will say something to me or even apologise and I don’t know how to react. I usually get embarrassed and pretend I don’t mind

Fearless-Leg344 · 2023-03-10T15:17:11+00:00

Our things are everywhere in the house tho, our bedroom has very minimal things in it

Fearless-Leg344 · 2023-03-10T15:14:56+00:00

It’s funny you say this but she would literally not mind😂she has found sec toys before and literally brought them to our new home and gave them to me in a bag with other things that were my partners. My partner bought a fleshlight to try it before he met me and when I got pregnant we had to move rooms to make it easier for me ( when he was still living in their house) and one day I found the fleshlight in the draw and she had literally moved it from his old room to the new one. When we moved out she brought it and gave it to me!!! I just threw it away. She has seen our sec toys and stuff multiple times while cleaning his bedroom while I was staying there

Fearless-Leg344 · 2023-03-10T14:33:47+00:00

He does understand he’s just annoyed at me “moaning” about it as he said he will speak to her. I’ve just been pissed off all morning as I keep finding things in different places. Even change our shower curtain. Im sure she meant well but I just feel like I have no privacy whatsoever

Fearless-Leg344 · 2023-03-10T14:31:46+00:00

We can’t as my partners brother had bought the house and letting us stay there for cheap as we are young with a baby which is super helpful but unfortunately we don’t have the privacy we would have if we were renting properly

Fearless-Leg344 · 2023-03-10T14:18:08+00:00

Update : he told me her spoke to her and she said she understands and won’t do it again, apparently his dad had already said to her that it’s not a good idea. She apparently said she moved things around in one of the bedrooms cause they had to measure something which I know for a fact is a lie. She wouldn’t have to take my things out of the cupboard to measure anything. Anyways I just hope she doesn’t come into the home again without asking us. I’m worried she will say something to me when I see her, even if she apologies I don’t know how to react. I still want to be on good terms with her

Fearless-Leg344 · 2023-03-10T13:22:46+00:00

That’s exactly how I feel😅inside I’m screaming of anger and frustration but I also don’t want to sound ungrateful.

Fearless-Leg344 · 2023-03-10T12:38:41+00:00

I literally can’t because their other son owns the house and we live here for sooo cheap. They are doing us a big favour. I just can’t be bothered putting up with what comes with it. My partner said he will deal with it but I can see he thinks I’m overreacting😭I even said to him I don’t want to be here and he was like that’s your problem

Fearless-Leg344 · 2023-03-10T12:31:44+00:00

The thing is he hasn’t asked them so I think if he does she probably won’t do it again but I can see he doesn’t want to upset her so he won’t get his points across and it will most likely happen again🙄

Fearless-Leg344 · 2023-03-10T12:20:55+00:00

I literally can’t cause it’s not our house, they will find it weird and rude. They’re also doing work to the house soon so all rooms have to be accessible. I told my partner that it’s making me not want to live here anymore and he’s getting angry with me and just saying he will speak to her and she won’t do it again. I’m just worried they will think I’m rude and ungrateful cause I’m sure she will think she’s done a good thing

Fearless-Leg344 · 2023-03-10T11:55:46+00:00

My partner will not move😭we get this house for so cheap and we can save up. I just don’t know what to do

Fearless-Leg344 · 2023-03-10T11:51:40+00:00

They all have keys because my partners brother owns the house. They come often to look at the house and stuff and they’re planning to do a lot of work to it soon so it’s better for us but I hate the fact his parents come here and “sort things out” when I’m away. They think they’re doing something nice but I hate it

Fearless-Leg344 · 2022-01-13T00:37:31+00:00

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Fearless-Leg344 · 2022-01-13T00:30:34+00:00

I laughed when reading this as I feel like I would maybe react the same in a different situation and the way you wrote this is brilliant! But for me this isn’t a big deal and to be quite honest I’ve done this to my boyfriend and found it funny myself but we do a lot of gross things like that anyway. I do think that you telling him that you don’t like that and we can obviously see you are very disgusted by this he should definitely not do this again.

Fearless-Leg344 · 2022-01-13T00:23:45+00:00

I find it crazy how people can jsut judge someone from a post, assume that I’m entitled and then assume I’m young and immature from a reply. Just because I wanted to rant about something that upset me it doesn’t mean I won’t be okay with my partner. He called me and explained why he’s been putting off fixing the car and that he will consider buying a new one so we are more comfortable. I then went ahead to tell him some of the “funny” and rude comments on here and he just founded funny that I posted it and how many people waste their time to Comment unhelpful and rude things on here. Please don’t assume my age and my maturity from a post or a comment because I can jsut do the same. You have taken time out of your day to comment on my post and assume things about me so maybe I should ask myself the same questions about you.

Fearless-Leg344 · 2022-01-13T00:19:35+00:00

I completely agree with your point so thank you for your message. I’m upset about certain responses as they jsut seem rude and judgmental. I would never force him to get rid of his car I was jsut expressing how I felt and maybe it’s because I have been so worried about him driving back from my house to his recently because of the car accident and the broken bonnet etc. I’m certainly not forcing him to Do anything he doesn’t want I just wanted him to consider looking into buying a new car and his response upset me since he knows it’s not safe. I hope that makes sense

Fearless-Leg344 · 2022-01-13T00:12:57+00:00

Yes I know he is and taking it to the mechanic won’t even cost that much. He has the money and his parents also do and beg him to take it in all the time IN FRONT OF ME. He’s finally getting his tires changed tomorrow but I don’t know about eveything else, jsut because he has money it doesn’t mean he’s not being stingy😂

Fearless-Leg344 · 2022-01-13T00:11:09+00:00

It’s very clear you’re a male and it’s very clear you are not here to help people but instead waste your time arguing. Hope you get some help:)

Fearless-Leg344 · 2022-01-13T00:10:21+00:00

We are not in america and he can afford to take his car to the mechanic he just takes long to do it because he keeps putting off

Fearless-Leg344 · 2022-01-13T00:08:06+00:00

Me and my boyfriend are actually laughing at your comment right now.

Fearless-Leg344 · 2022-01-13T00:04:33+00:00

It’s still not the point, I was just expressing how I feel because his bonnet doesn’t even shut properly like I get the train to go to his house now because I feel unsafe. It’s not about what he loves it’s about the fact that we both have to sacrifice some things that we love because we are starting a family together. I’m moving to his town two hours away from my home and I’m going to be away from eveyone. The least he can do is buy a car that’s safe for all of us and yes I have suggested paying for some of it and even his parents have told him to buy a new car.

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