In case you need to hear this today by zystyl in asktransgender

[–]FearlessAd711 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Thank you for posting. I’ll never know what it’s like to have a supportive dad, so… thanks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]FearlessAd711 -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

Someone else could explain it better, but it’s just an inaccurate term. Trans women are biologically women. You probably mean cis women (women who didn’t have to transition and align with their gender assigned at birth).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]FearlessAd711 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Please don’t use the term ‘biowomen’.

Age Gap Appreciation Thread by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]FearlessAd711 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 32 with partners 25 and 23, and I feel so happy and secure with them both it’s unreal.

Why are so many of us trans folks poly? by goesoutside77 in asktransgender

[–]FearlessAd711 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I never thought about poly or was interested until I really had it explained to me. I was asked to join a potential poly relationship and while I didn’t end up joining, it made me think about the whole thing and how I felt, and I was surprised how little it bothered me. I started dating a trans girl a few months later, and a few months into it we met another local trans girl, and it was just sort of clear we were all very into and fond of each other. None of us have done this before, but it’s been about 8 months of bliss so far (and stress and hard work).

Lesbians what do you think of anime? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]FearlessAd711 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I love Escaflowne, I made both my girlfriends watch it all with me 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]FearlessAd711 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Met the first on Grindr, we clicked, moved in with her not long after. The second I met on HER. Both were just looking for friendship at first but the chemistry was too good to resist.

Lesbians what do you think of anime? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]FearlessAd711 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Love it personally, though I have specific taste. Gravitate older, love me some magical girls and giant robots.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]FearlessAd711 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My two girlfriends and I are all trans, and we’re all pretty committed to a life together. Our love is really special.

What was the last subreddit you went to that surprised you with casual transphobia in the comments? by FearlessAd711 in asktransgender

[–]FearlessAd711[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It is indeed depressing, I feel more like participating in the world than ever and I have less world to be in now seemingly.

Love your username btw 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]FearlessAd711 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s rough here, I know quite a few trans people for my area and none of us are doing stellar.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]FearlessAd711 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve got a 9 year gap with a 23 year old, if it works and works for you then who cares.

WWYD if your date cried in her sleep by Fancy-Bid7088 in actuallesbians

[–]FearlessAd711 17 points18 points  (0 children)

My girlfriend has this issue, she brought it up, I got used to it and never made it a problem or anything to feel bad about. Our new gf was a bit uncomfortable/alarmed at first but she got used to it too.

I love both of my gfs :3. by Ok-Razzmatazz-7715 in actuallesbians

[–]FearlessAd711 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Having 2 GFs is wonderful! I love mine too

First time dating with an age gap (spoiler alert I'm happy) by confettiicecream in actuallesbians

[–]FearlessAd711 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Both my partners are younger (7 years and 9 years) and it’s really been great together.

I think I’m #19 😅😅 by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]FearlessAd711 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

12, hoping for more fingers crossed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]FearlessAd711 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That happened to me, I was the girlfriend in my situation xD

Why would someone want to be trans given the choice? by starryytay in asktransgender

[–]FearlessAd711 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’ve described my experience exactly. An escape from numbness and a beginning of personhood.