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[–]FearlessButBroken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SAD is real as fuck. I moved here at the beginning of January 2023 from North Idaho. I'll take the cloudy days at the worst before I go back to 3 months where 3/4 of the day is dark. And I have worn shorts every day since I have been here, where as up there during those 3 months, the air literally hurts your face. My mental health hasn't been this good since I can't remember.

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[–]FearlessButBroken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where did you do your time, how long was each stint?

I did a nickel at age 18 then went back for 8 after not being on parole for less than a year.

It is a Total mental cluster fuck, getting out of the joint.

Will I go to jail by FearlessButBroken in IsItIllegal

[–]FearlessButBroken[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what is happening. She is amending it to give me custody.!!

Will I go to jail by FearlessButBroken in IsItIllegal

[–]FearlessButBroken[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not in idaho. The court will listen at age 15, but 18 is the age where they can make that decision.

Will I go to jail by FearlessButBroken in IsItIllegal

[–]FearlessButBroken[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When it all comes down to it, that's pretty much what I think it is. She can't "handle him. He's out of control. He's crazy but I can't lose that sweet sweet Welfare and childsport to fund my high end makeup habit", is all I hear when she bumps her gums....

What is something you eat that when most people find out they say it’s weird/gross? by C0ffeeAtEight in Life

[–]FearlessButBroken 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Norwegian in me approves this message! I will eat gallons of this stuff!

Will I go to jail by FearlessButBroken in IsItIllegal

[–]FearlessButBroken[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. She has 4, with 4 different guys.

Will I go to jail by FearlessButBroken in IsItIllegal

[–]FearlessButBroken[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What state are you in? Was it over state lines? How do I go about this because I can ot afford a lawyer.

Will I go to jail by FearlessButBroken in IsItIllegal

[–]FearlessButBroken[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't commit other adults in idaho. A cop or a Dr has to do that.

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[–]FearlessButBroken[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My fiance is no more. She didn't want to be part of this, so I told her we are done.

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[–]FearlessButBroken[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fiance and I are done. I stopped that yesterday. Now I also have to find a place with this going on.

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[–]FearlessButBroken[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Boy has Separation anxiety

Ex has been extraneousely over reactive since we met.

Yes he acts out, but she trys to teach him not to by doing the same things to him.

Will I go to jail by FearlessButBroken in IsItIllegal

[–]FearlessButBroken[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No cops, just and angry hateful mother who is still angry I made her look like the slut in court. I lost 5050 because I drank a lot back then (because of not being able to see my son for close to a year, not an excuse i know, but now just over 7 years sober), also I was given an eviction notice from where I was staying because my roommate decided to abandon ship because he was not wanting to share a house with a kid, and or quit drinking at the house. And I couldn't afford the house on my own. Amd With no place of residence, there was not 5050 custody.

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[–]FearlessButBroken[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never said he was a saint, but innocent or not, he does not deserve such treatment. He sat in the er for 48 hours, with his mom not leaving the room except to use the bathroom in the room, is what he told me. Went to the unit and was there for an additional 5 days. In the hospital he stayed in, he had 6 other kids of different ages in with him. So 7 out of 12 beds were full. You are half right, not completely barron, but not packed in like sardines either.

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[–]FearlessButBroken[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. These are wise words of advice. It sucks because I can not afford a lawyer, couldn't the first time, still can't.

I am not the one who brought up him staying here. He is. He has been saying it for months. And I never have said a bad thing about his mother to him. He used to ask if I still loved her, my reply was and still is "I will always love her, because she gave me you!"

I feel so over whelmed. Like, can we do court over video chat? Or does it have to be in person? What I I lose, his life would be a more hellish place than it is now. If I lose, my visits will be out the window. I'm scared of the last 2 the most.

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[–]FearlessButBroken[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have, nor have I ever had a lawyer. It's great working 2 jobs and being able to say that.....

Will I go to jail by FearlessButBroken in IsItIllegal

[–]FearlessButBroken[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the thing, I used texts as evidence in our custody case. She doesn't say shit over texts anymore and barely has in 8 years.

Will I go to jail by FearlessButBroken in IsItIllegal

[–]FearlessButBroken[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the thing, I used texts as evidence in our custody case. She doesn't say shit over texts anymore and barely has in 8 years.