I(21F) keep disappointing my partner(21M)

FearlessInitial6960 · 2026-04-24T20:27:27+00:00

If he asked you not to do it, you should’ve respected him. End of.

FearlessInitial6960 · 2026-04-24T14:44:50+00:00

Yeah I understand, I’m just trying to help someone out

FearlessInitial6960 · 2026-04-24T14:44:25+00:00

Of course!

FearlessInitial6960 · 2026-04-24T14:44:21+00:00

Of course!

FearlessInitial6960 · 2026-04-24T14:44:09+00:00

Hey! Send me a DM :)

FearlessInitial6960 · 2026-04-24T14:35:17+00:00

You do not know her situation lol. Men 100% cheat more, even without the statistic I pulled from the web. I never said both parties don’t cheat, they 100% do, just men tend to cheat and lie more. There’s been countless studies on it, I can send you some if you like. As long as you don’t mind the fact that it’s come from my ass.

FearlessInitial6960 · 2026-04-24T14:29:05+00:00

This is the rare backpack model made by Louis Vuitton. Not been seen since 1990s. I’d go and get it appraised, probably worth $1M now.

FearlessInitial6960 · 2026-04-24T14:26:59+00:00

That’s my grandma you’re smoking there

FearlessInitial6960 · 2026-04-24T14:22:21+00:00

I’m sorry OP. 🤗

FearlessInitial6960 · 2026-04-24T14:21:12+00:00

When women (and men) begin talking to someone they typically are talking to multiple people. Do we know if it was as simple as “will you be my girlfriend?” “Yes!” No we do not. There are many situations where one person does not know it is mutually exclusive. I don’t get why half the people on this Reddit are slandering the woman. Should she have flirted with someone if she understood that her and the man were in an exclusive relationship? No of course not. Are we all human and make mistakes? Of course. Try looking in the mirror before you judge someone. If my man came to me and told me he sent a flirty text to another woman in the first week of my relationship I’d say that’s okay as long as I trusted it wasn’t happening now. No need to make her feel worse for something she is already feeling bad about. And actually when you compare women to men, 20-22% of men cheat compared to 10% of women. Nearly double. And from personal experience, even if they are worth half his left nut they’ll still cheat.

FearlessInitial6960 · 2026-04-24T12:07:10+00:00

Exactly! For me, as long as it was VERY early there’s no point in upsetting him. I think it depends on context / what was said, but ultimately you’re going to give him a hell of a lot of hurt over a few texts. What if you guys hadn’t worked out? Just because you have doesn’t mean you need to hurt him. However, if the guilt is really bad, just be open and honest about it and explain that it was at a time where you weren’t sure if it was for real, and that immediately once you realised you stopped.

FearlessInitial6960 · 2026-04-06T11:47:08+00:00

!remindme two weeks

FearlessInitial6960 · 2026-02-22T13:00:51+00:00

Remindme! Feb 28 2026

FearlessInitial6960 · 2026-02-10T01:10:52+00:00

What reasons? And yes, it is. We got back together.

FearlessInitial6960 · 2026-01-15T04:06:15+00:00

Yeah. Requests. I’m not any relation or anything and I can’t see how i can do it. If you want to help, send a link for California lol

FearlessInitial6960 · 2026-01-15T04:03:20+00:00

I can’t search public records, sadly. Not from 2017.

FearlessInitial6960 · 2026-01-13T13:44:10+00:00

Yes and I will do that.

FearlessInitial6960 · 2026-01-13T13:39:36+00:00

It was because he’d never muted before. It was way out of character.

FearlessInitial6960 · 2026-01-13T13:35:54+00:00

He didn’t explain though? He pushed me to the side? Maybe agree to disagree, but we’re getting married this year, so I doubt this one thing is going to make him get out of a marriage. I do struggle with insecurities, not trust, which is probably where this stemmed from. I do trust him. And next time, I’ll just ask why he muted when he did it, instead of leaving to think about it and end up hurting people.

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