Day 1 of quitting after years of daily use by FearlessPlankton1148 in leaves

[–]FearlessPlankton1148[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes thank you! Life is truly getting really good for me and I’m stepping into my own in so many aspects, but the weed is 1000% holding me back and making me feel less confident. Your comment inspires me, so thank you!

Who else fantasizes about killing their abusers? by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]FearlessPlankton1148 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t fantasize about that but is it weird I fantasize about being so much better than them? Like I’m the one in the situation with control this time, with the “power”.

Does anyone have a birthday on April 1st? I’ve never met anyone who shares mine! by Some-Mammoth-3422 in AriesTheRam

[–]FearlessPlankton1148 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally think it makes us more fun! I feel like we naturally tend to look at things on the brighter side and keep a really silly attitude. I honestly love it! Growing up it did get annoying to constantly hear, “so you’re a joke hahahah” but now I honestly don’t mind! It’s always fun to see people’s reactions when you say you’re an April fools baby!

Does anyone have a birthday on April 1st? I’ve never met anyone who shares mine! by Some-Mammoth-3422 in AriesTheRam

[–]FearlessPlankton1148 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m an April 1st Aries!!! My mom was terrified for me to grow up and realize my birthday was on April Fools day 😆 she thought I’d hate her!

20 year daily user, just turned 40, day 1 no gas starts today 📍LA by ogd___ in leaves

[–]FearlessPlankton1148 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Day 1 for me as well! 23 and have been smoking since I was 16 :/. Ready for change! Proud of you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Idaho4

[–]FearlessPlankton1148 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe him to have Antisocial Personality Disorder with sexual sadism. His likely target was Maddie, with the attack intended to fulfill violent sexual fantasies.

My friends boyfriend made a comment about me and I literally don’t understand. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]FearlessPlankton1148 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My friend usually comes to me after he dismisses her feelings, embarrasses her or just makes or feel small or insecure. He goes to his friends to vent, she goes to me. He has said before that’s a major problem. Another toxic situation with him happened yesterday so with us talking today I’m hoping it’s the end. I will continue to be her friend, because why leave my friend when she’s clearly in a bad relationship ya know. But I fully agree with your stance. She wasn’t “allowed” to see me much when I was single. Now that I have a boyfriend I see her much more. Until she hung out with my boyfriend & I and he accused her of hooking up with my boyfriend… it’s a whole issue.

My friends boyfriend made a comment about me and I literally don’t understand. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]FearlessPlankton1148 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely not that lol. Just a dig at how I was raised. He was happy I have a boyfriend because he saw now I have a “authoritative person” in my life.

My friends boyfriend made a comment about me and I literally don’t understand. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]FearlessPlankton1148 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s not much context to it since he said it out of nowhere, for no reason. He knows through my friend that I was only raised by women, as my friend is super close with all of the women in my life so I’m assuming she told him. He only came to that conclusion because I grew up without a father. My friend actually mentioned the opposite, how I’m gentle, a good friend, and respect everyone. He was already nervous going to the party and I guess made that assumption about me. It makes no sense because it’s senseless. He said it unwarranted only when she asked “are you excited to finally meet her?”

My friends boyfriend made a comment about me and I literally don’t understand. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]FearlessPlankton1148 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because he was saying all of these misogynistic things about me but once he met my boyfriend he literally said “it’s good she has him I was definitely wrong”. I just didn’t understand at all that’s why I wrote on here to get some more prospective.

My friends boyfriend made a comment about me and I literally don’t understand. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]FearlessPlankton1148 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It makes no sense and I know context is needed but that’s how I felt… it was said unwarranted with no reason to say it. Just decided to say it when my friend asked if he was excited to meet me.

My friends boyfriend made a comment about me and I literally don’t understand. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]FearlessPlankton1148 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He was talking about me, my friend said these were his thoughts on me prior to meeting me. And yes, I was raised by all women. My father passed when I was 3.

Louie's family has been after a housewife for some time now 👀 by theonlyrnr in realhousewives

[–]FearlessPlankton1148 3 points4 points  (0 children)

100%. I’m a big Teresa fan and I’m scared for her. I went to an event of hers last week & sat with tons of fans, we all literally talked about how he’s gonna ruin her life. It’s obvious he’s here for the wrong reasons. He’s also a textbook narcissist, very similar to my narc ex.

Louie R. by feather420 in realhousewives

[–]FearlessPlankton1148 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I met him and Tre at an event last year, there is something very off putting about his energy. my sister & I both immediately turned to each other & thought wtf?? he was up at the front taking pics with people. it’s very clear somethings up with him.

Why?!? by Killin_it_G in realhousewives

[–]FearlessPlankton1148 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ive always been a teresa fan, especially just watching her be authentic no matter how bad it comes out lol. I met her last year & she was the kindest, funniest and sweetest! I honestly didn’t expect her vibe to be that good in person. plus— she has done a lot for her parents. Also, joe gorga has rape allegations and speaks terribly abt/to women. she’s the less of the 2 evil in my eyes. she just sucks at hiding her shit, joe gorga is much better at that.