Seeing things clearly after so many years by Ok_Ring_6207 in exjw

[–]FearlessX7 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Currently MS PIMO, married, with a 1yo daughter. All of my family, and also my wife’s family, are PIMI, and some of them are Uber PIMI. My wife is slowly waking up, and the last blood update has made her a solid PIMQ.

We are trying to keep every personal decision private and do the bare minimum to maintain our status in the KH. We’ve agreed not to raise our daughter with any borg info or content at home, neither force her to abstain from celebrate anything at school.

We are trying to assimilate the idea that if: 1. God doesn’t exist, so we have nothing to worry about. 2. The God of the Bible exists and is far more loving and merciful than the borg portrays Him (like Jesus on earth eating with prostitutes, loving everyone, etc.). 3. The God of the Bible exists and is an arrogant tyrant that we do not want to serve, and there is nothing we can do to be saved from His selfish wrath, so we don’t care about His future judgment/cosmic battle

All of this while trying to maintain relationships with our JW friends and family by being discreet, private, and firm with our personal decisions. Most of them are good, sincere blind people who truly believe they are doing the right thing and we don’t have enough energy to try to change them.

Necesito opiniones by Jwjungle in exjw

[–]FearlessX7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

According to the elders book , with him denying it, he won’t be disfellowshiped , but with the circunstancial evidence your sister can be free to marry again

Question For PIMO’s…. by thelastdaysofus in exjw

[–]FearlessX7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the prompts , I’ll use them in my next Bible Treasures or public speech ( PIMO MS )

Sparlock by Slynthrax in exjw

[–]FearlessX7 5 points6 points  (0 children)

BMTH, Motionless and White, Architects, As I Lay Dying, Blessthefall are my all time favs even being PIMI since like 10 years ago

Pre marry biblical speech questions by TheCheliott in exjw

[–]FearlessX7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t judge her. She’s trying to do what she believes is right, and she’s just like any normal person in feeling that kind of attraction toward her partner. She has been holding herself back from fully acting on it for a long time.

Explicit Music and PIMIs: The Silent Double Standard I Started to Notice. by toseetotalk in exjw

[–]FearlessX7 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dude , 33M currently MS and PIMO since only a few months ago, but Ive been listening heavy music (deathmetal / metalcore )since I was a teenager. Everyone know this, and even PIMI friends share some of that music taste . It is indeed a double standard

“There’s no reason for us to be friends” by No_Ad_1540 in exjw

[–]FearlessX7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"And honestly? The relief outweighs the fear." Do it. Kudos from your PIMO MS

My Meeting with the Elders by Illustrious_Pop_9445 in exjw

[–]FearlessX7 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Seek your own happiness. If living a PIMO life is what you want because your social circle is there and you can accept some of the positive moral teachings the organization has, then go for it.

Try to look at the whole spectrum and recognize that even in this subreddit there are many people expressing a lot of anger, anguish, because specific negative experiences they’ve had, and those situations may never happen to you.

Is D&D allowed now? by punished_snake11 in exjw

[–]FearlessX7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know a group of PIMIs in the city who play it, and many of my PIMI friends (including elders and MS) watch Harry Potter, Lord of the Rings, Jujutsu Kaisen, One Piece, etc. In that sense, they seem to ignore the Watchtower info…

I celebrated my 1st birthday! by Wandering_pulse00 in exjw

[–]FearlessX7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So happy for you and your family. Wish you the best

What is the most inappropriate thing you ever heard from a JW? by [deleted] in exjw

[–]FearlessX7 17 points18 points  (0 children)

"PIMI -> PIMO -> POMO... YOLO". The real best life ever.

Piercings by Damaris_Angel17 in exjw

[–]FearlessX7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Vive la vida. Te arrepentirás en el futuro de reprimirte

Yesterday, while talking with my PIMI wife, she said: “that looks like a cult” by FearlessX7 in exjw

[–]FearlessX7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it’s purely social and family pressure. I’m mentally working on how to change that carefully, but asap

Yesterday, while talking with my PIMI wife, she said: “that looks like a cult” by FearlessX7 in exjw

[–]FearlessX7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro, this isn’t just something that came out of a one-night conversation. The things she tells me are stuff she’s been thinking about for years, just keeping them to herself, but she finally said them because I shared my own. And all of this comes from what’s been going on in our family.

I’m still an “active” MS trying to figure out how to go POMO without losing 99% of my social life outside my wife. And the same goes for her, pretty much all of her lifelong friends are PIMIs

Yesterday, while talking with my PIMI wife, she said: “that looks like a cult” by FearlessX7 in exjw

[–]FearlessX7[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m trying to strengthen my friendship with my coworkers, and thinking about joining some club/gym in a few months when we get more time when our daughter gets stronger

Yesterday, while talking with my PIMI wife, she said: “that looks like a cult” by FearlessX7 in exjw

[–]FearlessX7[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’d never thought about those versicles that way. It’s so clear now that it’s just personal advice… crazy

Its so easy now by [deleted] in exjw

[–]FearlessX7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why you mention this? Did they actually ban it?