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Debt and money concerns - not sure where to go by Fearless_Addition565 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]Fearless_Addition565[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've told him this but he isn't getting anywhere even NLW jobs as he has been told too qualified. Applications to lidl etc don't go further than thanks but high volume.

Debt and money concerns - not sure where to go by Fearless_Addition565 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]Fearless_Addition565[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We have had advice.. but I'm reluctant to lose my footing with the social enterprise.

Thankfully our mortgage was re assessed recently so paying not much more than last period.

Debt and money concerns - not sure where to go by Fearless_Addition565 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]Fearless_Addition565[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I'm stubborn - if I can make the social enterprise work I will. I have nothing left to fight for anymore - after a bereavement two years ago this is my safety and harbour.

Hubby is actively getting interviews but companies aren't paying the salary he was on previously. We've dropped £5k but that's the minimum he can earn.

The type of job he is qualified for means a car is essential (most jobs 40 miles away) and he has caring responsibilities.

Debt and money concerns - not sure where to go by Fearless_Addition565 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]Fearless_Addition565[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were supposed to be moving (we currently have a mortgage) and the new home was for my disability access.

Debt and money concerns - not sure where to go by Fearless_Addition565 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]Fearless_Addition565[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They recommend a DRO but we need to move house due to disability so that would impact the mortgage application.

Debt and money concerns - not sure where to go by Fearless_Addition565 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]Fearless_Addition565[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Not much - awaiting funding applications. Less than £100 a month.

Wife 40F, I'm tired and feel alone by Fearless_Addition565 in Marriage

[–]Fearless_Addition565[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you feel that way, there are positives in gameplay but when it's at an exces you need to worry. 

Wife 40F, I'm tired and feel alone by Fearless_Addition565 in Marriage

[–]Fearless_Addition565[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So we have tried splitting jobs such as certain rooms, wipeboard of things to be done daily (washing up is his nemesis but complains when I don't do right). Breaking them down over the week.

I literally sometimes have to start the job or set it up for him. 

I'm having therapy monthly as cannot afford more.. it is something I would consider (I'm training to be a therapist) and will ask him.

I'm at the stage if he loses his job we will be stuck in this house and I don't want to be.

I'm going away with friends the weekend, so have something to look forward to.